Practice English Conversation to Improve Speaking Skills (Family life) English Conversation Practice

no Mark how many times do I have  to repeat it I can't do that

不，马克，我要重复多少次我不能那样做

yeah I know I know it's not correct but  I really can't do that no matter what

是的，我知道我知道这是不正确的，但无论如何我真的不能那样做不，不要

no don't insist of course he won't  understand he will never forgive me

坚持，当然他不会理解他会的永远不要原谅我，

I don't know I'll have to find a  solution myself but he can't find out

我不知道我必须自己找到解决办法，但他找不到，不，

no my dad can't find out he won't forgive  me what I did was something totally wrong

我爸爸找不到，他不会原谅我，我做的是完全错误的事情，

may I know what is that terrible thing  you can't tell me Richard I want to know

我可以知道是什么吗 那件可怕的事

Dad hello uh no it's nothing you heard wrong

你 不能告诉我理查德我想知道

no I heard very well you are telling your  best friend you did something terrible  

爸爸你好呃

and I want to know

不

that I'm really sorry please  forgive me I'm so sorry

这没什么原谅我，我很抱歉

I promise it will never happen again  just give me an opportunity please

，我保证不会再发生了，请给我一个机会，

I failed this time but I promise I will pass  the next exam I don't know what happened to me

这次我失败了，但我保证我会通过下一次考试，我不知道我发生了什么事，

I studied hard but I couldn't make it I  promise it won't happen again forgive me

我努力学习，但我做不到做到这一点我保证不会再发生原谅我

wait a minute that terrible thing you  did was that you failed your midterm exam

等一下你做的那件可怕的事是你期中考试不及格是的

yes but it won't happen again I  don't know what happened oh he's

但它不会再发生我不知道发生了什么哦他

that's okay son why could I get  angry just because of an exam

没关系儿子为什么我可以仅仅因为考试就生气

well I never failed an exam I always got  excellent grades I'm the best student  

好吧我从来没有考试不及格我总是取得优异的成绩我是最好的学生

or well I was the best student with  this failure I don't know anymore

或者好吧我是最好的学生但这次失败我不知道了

oh God are you serious no you can't be serious

哦上帝你是认真的不你不能认真点

son that's okay I mean it's okay to  fail sometimes it's not a big deal

儿子 没关系 我的意思是有时失败没关系 这没什么大不了的 这

it is for me it's the first time I fail an  exam and I feel terrible I can't believe it  

对我来说 这是我第一次考试不及格 我感觉很糟糕 我无法相信 好吧

okay we need to talk about it I will  tell you why failure is also important

我们需要谈谈它 我会告诉你为什么失败也很重要

filler teaches us about love  relationships money business and people

填充物教会我们爱情关系金钱业务和人

failure sets the stage for us to reach our  goals we can use failure as a teaching tool to  

失败为我们实现目标奠定了基础我们可以使用失败作为教学工具来

improve the skills like problem solving leadership  communication decision making learning and so on

提高解决问题领导沟通决策 学习 等技能

think of failure like this every decision  we make has a 50 chance of success  

像这样的失败 我们做出的每一个决定都有 50 的成功机会

and a hundred percent warranty to teach  you something new in the process you see

和 100% 的保证在这个过程中教给你一些新东西 你看到你

you're just saying that so I don't feel  bad you're my dad you have to tell me that

只是这么说 所以我不难过 你是我爸爸 你必须告诉我知道

oh come on I know when you experience  a failure you can feel it in your gut

哦，拜托，我知道当你经历失败时，你会在直觉中感受到它，你

you may think to yourself I'm never  coming back from this I know that

可能会想，我永远不会从这件事中恢复过来，我知道

your confidence and self-esteem can take a hit  you might not want to try something new again

你的信心和自尊会受到打击，你可能不想再次尝试新事物

but let me tell you something really  important about failure my dear son

但让我告诉你关于失败的一些非常重要的事情 我亲爱的儿子

it took Thomas Edison 10 000  attempts to perfect the light bulb

托马斯爱迪生花了 10000 次尝试来完善灯泡 比尔盖茨的

Bill Gates first company was  a complete disaster seriously

第一家公司是一场彻底的灾难

Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper job  for lack of creativity can you believe that  

沃尔特迪士尼因为缺乏创造力而被报纸工作你能相信

Michael Jordan was cut from his  high school basketball team haha

迈克尔乔丹被他的高中篮球队裁掉了吗

Oprah Winfrey was fired from her  first job where she experienced  

哈哈奥普拉温弗瑞被解雇了她的第一份工作在那里她经历了

sexual harassment and hostile work  environment the most successful  

性骚扰和充满敌意的工作环境 世界上 最成功的

people in the world have failed often  but what lessons can failure teach you  

人经常失败但是失败可以 诚实地 教给你什么教训

honestly our definition of failure might vary  depending on our experiences so what is failure  

我们对失败的定义可能会根据我们的经验而有所不同，所以什么是失败

failure is defined as a lack of success failure  is defined as the inability to meet an expectation  

失败被定义为缺乏成功失败被定义为无法达到期望

and one example is your exam you had expected  to get a good grade but you couldn't make it

，一个例子是你的考试你曾期望获得好成绩但你不能'它不会让

fill your hearts it doesn't make us feel  good it can put our perfectionism to the test

你的心充满它不会让我们感觉良好它可以测试我们的完美主义

it can be difficult to pick ourself up to  try again so what do you learn from failure

它可能很难振作起来再试一次所以你从失败中学到的东西比

well a lot more than you  think for example resilience

你想象的要多得多，例如韧性

or failure we learn resiliency it's hard to not  learn how to build resilience after a failure  

或失败我们学习弹性很难不学习如何在失败后建立弹性

especially if you're a determined  to overcome failure believe me

尤其是如果你决心克服失败相信我

resilience can help you build a growth mindset  it can help you adopt the right behaviors to  

弹性可以帮助你建立成长心态它可以帮助你采取正确的行为来

overcome change humility our egos are sensitive  they can grow and evolve into beasts of Their Own  

克服变化谦逊我们的自我是敏感的，他们可以成长并进化成自己的野兽

and most of the time a healthy dose of  failure is good for our ego it keeps us humble

，大多数时候，健康剂量的失败对我们的自我有好处它让我们保持谦虚

failure can teach us how to embody important  characteristics like humility and leaderships

失败可以教会我们如何体现重要的特征，如谦逊和领导

flexibility even the best lead plants are  disrupted and that goes for failures too  

灵活性，即使是最好的领导植物被破坏，这也适用于失败

I often think of the phrase you can't do the same  thing over and over and expect different results  

我经常想到这句话，你不能一遍又一遍地做同样的事情并期望不同的结果

failures teaches flexibility adaptability  and how to overcome obstacles  

失败教会灵活性适应能力以及如何克服障碍

it teaches us to use change to our advantage  

它教会我们利用变化来发挥自己的优势

it keeps us Nimble and helps us adopt that  growth mindset Innovation and creativity much  

它使我们保持敏捷并帮助我们采用成长型思维方式 创新和创造力就像

like flexibility Innovation and creativity  can present themselves as lessons of failure  

灵活性一样 创新和创造力可以将自己呈现为失败的教训

practice some patience and inner work to keep  the creative juices flowing and amid failure

练习一些耐心和内心的工作，以保持创造力的源源不断失败

motivation you may be wondering  right now motivation and yeah

动机你现在可能想知道动机是的

When someone tells me I can't  do something it makes me that  

当有人告诉我我不能做某事时，这让我

much more determined to prove them wrong

更加坚定地证明他们是错误的，

oftentimes our failures are  motivators for example let's  

我们的失败往往是动机，例如假设

say you're practicing your presentation skills

你正在练​​习你的演讲技巧

you've known multiple presentations  and public speaking opportunities

你'你知道多次演讲和公开演讲的机会

and you make mistakes along the way but by your  tenth performance you finally nail it perfectly  

，你一路上犯了错误，但在你的第十次表演中你终于完美地钉上了它

seeing progress along the way is  a big motivator failure can help  

看到一路上的进步是一个很大的动力失败可以帮助

fill our motivation and help us reach our goals  

我们充满动力并帮助我们实现我们的目标

it's important to learn from failure because it  brings us one step closer to reaching success as  

学习很重要从失败中解脱，因为它让我们离成功更近了一步，正如

Bill Gates said it's okay to celebrate success but  it's more important to hit that lessons of failure

比尔盖茨所说，庆祝成功是可以的，但更重要的是吸取失败的教训，

all right then you're not angry because I  failed an exam I can do it better next time

然后你就不会因为我考试不及格而生气，我下次可以做得更好时间

and I'm sure you will I trust in you you  are my son and I will always support you

，我相信你会的 我相信你 你是我的儿子 我会永远支持你

thank you so much that you always  teach me great things I love you

非常感谢你总是教我伟大的事情 我爱你

I love you too soon now let's go for some ice  cream to celebrate your first failure I hope  

我爱你太早了 现在我们去吃点冰淇淋庆祝一下你的第一次失败我希望

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