Practice English Conversation to Improve Speaking Skills (Family life) English Conversation Practice

oh hello Ronald are you looking for  my son I will call Ben right now Ben

oh hello Ronald hinahanap mo ba ang anak ko tatawagan ko si Ben ngayon din Ben

good morning Mr Connor yes  please I need to talk to him

good morning Mr Connor yes please I need to talk to him

sure he'll be here in a sec oh  sorry I forgot he's not here now

sure he'll be here in a second oh sorry nakalimutan kong wala siya ngayon

he went out with some friends didn't he  tell you I thought you were his best friend

lumabas siya kasama ang ilan mga kaibigan di ba niya sinabi sayo akala ko best friend ka niya

oh it's a Pity what happens is that I  lost my cell phone and he couldn't call me

oh sayang naman ang nangyari nawala ang cellphone ko at hindi niya ako matawagan

anyway I'm living then thank you  so much Mr Connor have a nice day

kahit papano buhay ako then thank you so much Mr Connor have a nice day

hey wait you don't look good  you're having problems aren't you

hoy teka mukhang hindi ka maganda nagkakaproblema ka diba

I can recognize that expression  it's for a woman right I know that

I can recognised that expression it's for a woman right I know that

well yeah but I don't want to bother you sir  I wanted to talk to Ben but if he's not here  

well yeah but I don't want to bother you sir I wanted to talk to Ben pero kung wala siya dito

all right if you don't want to talk  then that's okay have a great day

sige kung ayaw mong magsalita okay lang have a great day

yeah it's a woman it's my girlfriend we  fight all the time I don't know what to do  

yeah babae yun girlfriend ko lagi kaming nag-aaway hindi ko alam kung anong gagawin ko

I see young couples usually  fight son is it serious

nakakakita ako ng young couples usually nag-aaway anak grabe ba

maybe you can help me Ben told me you and  your wife live happy how do you do that

baka matulungan mo ako Ben told me you and your wife live happy how do you do that

look I'm not an expert but maybe I can give  you some advice about having a relationship

look I'm not expert but maybe I can give you some advice about ha ving a relationship

it could be an honor to hear that I  really need to solve my couple problems

it could be an honor to hear that I really need to solve my couple problems

well based on my experience the first thing  you have to do is get to know yourself

well based on

take the time to appreciate yourself  and get in touch with your emotions

my experience

this will help you to be able to express  yourself clearly and more effectively

. ay makakatulong sa iyo na maipahayag ang iyong sarili nang malinaw at mas epektibo

not knowing how to regulate your emotions  and express them healthily is bad

kung hindi mo alam kung paano i-regulate ang iyong mga emosyon at ipahayag ang mga ito nang malusog ay masama

it can negatively affect your mental  well-being couples always forget about that  

ito ay maaaring negatibong makaapekto

they just think about his or her couple and  forget about themselves that's something wrong

sa iyong mental well-being. about themselves that's something wrong

I think I get it you're saying that I should  focus on myself first before my partner

I think I get it you're saying that I should focus on myself first before my partner

and that's correct because maybe  you are the problem or maybe not but  

and that's correct kasi baka ikaw ang problema o hindi pero

you will never know that if you don't get  to know yourself first do you understand

hindi mo malalaman yun kung hindi mo nakikilala. sarili mo muna naiintindihan mo ba

yes I get it that's something  interesting what else sir

oo naiintindihan ko na isang bagay na kawili-wili ano pa ba sir

the second thing you must do is keep  expectations realistic all the time

ang pangalawang bagay na dapat mong gawin ay panatilihing makatotohanan ang mga inaasahan sa lahat ng oras

no one can be everything we might want them to  be healthy relationships mean accepting people  

walang sinuman ang maaaring maging lahat baka gusto natin silang gumaling thy relationships mean accepting people

as they are and not trying to change them no  accept your couple with her weaknesses too

as they are and not trying to change them no accept your couple with her weaknesses

also talk to each other I know I  know you've heard this before I know

also talk to each other Alam kong narinig mo na ito bago ko alam na ang

communication is essential to healthy  relationships that's the thing

komunikasyon ay mahalaga sa malusog na relasyon iyon ang bagay

of course we always talk about our  problems but we end up fighting  

siyempre lagi nating pinag-uusapan ang mga problema natin pero nauuwi tayo sa pag-aaway

that's because you're doing it in the wrong  way this is what you have to do pay attention

dahil mali ang ginagawa mo ito ang dapat mong gawin pansinin mo

take the time really be there sometimes our  body is there but our mind is at any other place  

maglaan ng oras talagang nandiyan minsan nandiyan ang katawan natin pero nasa ibang lugar ang isip natin.

listen do not interrupt or plan what you're  going to say next please don't do that  

makinig wag kang humadlang o planuhin kung ano ang susunod mong sasabihin please wag mong gawin yan

try to fully understand their perspective  and if you understand then ask questions

subukan mong intindihin ng buo ang perspective nila at kung naiintindihan mo then ask questions

show you're interested ask about her  experiences feelings opinions and interests

show you're interested ask about her experiences feelings opinions and interests

I'll also be flexible it is natural to  feel uneasy about changes it happened to me

I will also maging flexible natural na hindi mapalagay ang tungkol sa mga pagbabagong nangyari sa akin

but a healthy relationships allowed  for Change and growth it's part of that

ngunit ang isang malusog na relasyon ay pinahihintulutan para sa Pagbabago at paglago bahagi nito iyon

oh and never forget about taking care  of yourself too it's very important

oh at huwag kalimutan ang tungkol sa pag-aalaga sa iyong sarili masyadong ito ay

healthy relationships are mutual with room  for both people needs you have your own needs  

napakahalaga Ang iyong mga relasyon ay mutual na may puwang para sa parehong mga pangangailangan ng mga tao mayroon kang iyong sariling mga pangangailangan

go out with your friends visit your  parents play some sports study something

lumabas kasama ang iyong mga kaibigan bisitahin ang iyong mga magulang maglaro ng ilang sports pag-aaral kung ano ang

get your hair cut go to a spa or simply do  what you like to do you're not a prisoner

magpagupit ng buhok pumunta sa isang spa o gawin lang ang gusto mong gawin hindi ka bilanggo

maybe that's the problem we're spending  too much time together I don't go out alone

siguro yun ang problema masyado tayong magkasama hindi ako lumalabas mag-isa

well start doing that then take care  of yourself buddy don't forget that

buti na lang umpisahan mong gawin yan then take care of yourself buddy don't forget that

I'll do that in fact I tried some  of these things but we keep fighting

I'll do that in fact I tried some of these things but we keep pag-aaway

hmm all right then I'll give  you some tips for those fights

hmm sige bibigyan kita ng tips para sa mga away na yan

look most relationships have some conflict  it only means you disagree about something

mukhang karamihan sa mga relasyon ay may ilang salungatan ibig sabihin lang hindi ka sumasang-ayon sa isang bagay

it does not have to mean you don't like each  other it just means that you think differently

hindi naman kailangang nangangahulugang hindi mo gusto ang isa't isa nangangahulugan lang na iba ang iniisip

cool down before talking the conversation  will be more productive if you have it when

mo bago magsalita mas magiging productive ang usapan kung meron ka kapag

when your emotions have cooled off a little so  you don't say something you may regret later

medyo lumamig na ang emosyon mo para wala kang masabi baka pagsisihan mo sa huli

it really helped me a lot believe me I  also used to fight with my wife before

malaki ang naitulong nito sa akin maniwala ka sa akin nag-away din ako ng asawa ko dati

when we were angry we disrespected each other  that was something terrible to hear and see

nung nagalit kami hindi namin ginagalang nag-chat sa isa't isa na isang bagay na nakakatakot marinig at makita

then we started doing what I told you  cool off and everything will be better

pagkatapos ay sinimulan naming gawin ang sinabi ko sa iyo cool off at lahat ay magiging mas mahusay

also share how you feel and what you  want without assigning blame or motives

ibahagi din kung ano ang nararamdaman mo at kung ano ang gusto mo nang hindi nagbibigay ng sisihin o mga motibo

for example when you don't call me I  start to feel like you don't care about me

halimbawa kapag hindi mo ako tinawag na nagsisimula akong pakiramdam na wala kang pakialam sa akin

instead of you never call me  when you're away I guess I'm  

imbes na hindi mo ako tatawagan kapag wala ka. Ako

the only one who cares about this relationship

ang nag-iisang nagmamalasakit sa relasyong ito,

it's very very important to express your feelings  in the right way otherwise she'll misunderstand it

napakahalaga na ipahayag ang iyong damdamin sa tamang paraan kung hindi ay hindi niya maintindihan ito

keep your language clear and specific try  to factually describe behavior that you  

panatilihing malinaw at tiyak ang iyong wika subukang ilarawan sa katotohanan ang pag-uugali na

are upset with avoiding criticism and Judgment  of course attacked the problem not the person

naiinis ka sa pag-iwas sa pagpuna at Paghuhukom siyempre inaatake. ang problema hindi ang tao

focus on the current issue the conversation  is likely to get bogged down if you pile on  

ang tumutok sa kasalukuyang isyu ang pag-uusap ay malamang na magulo kung itatambak mo ang

everything that bothers you avoid using always  or never language and others one issue at a time

lahat ng bagay na bumabagabag sa iyo na iwasan ang paggamit palagi o hindi kailanman ng wika at ang iba ay isang isyu sa isang pagkakataon

and please Ronald take responsibility for mistakes  apologize if you have done something wrong

at mangyaring Ronald tanggapin ang responsibilidad para sa mga pagkakamali humingi ng paumanhin kung mayroon kang may nagawa kang mali

do not ignore your responsibility  do not play the fool do you hear me

wag mong balewalain ang responsibilidad mo wag mong gawing tanga naririnig mo ba ako

yes sir sometimes it's difficult to  recognize you did something wrong but

oo sir minsan mahirap kilalanin na may nagawa kang mali pero

I guess I will have to do it I don't want  to break up with her I really love her

I guess I will have to do it I don't wan ang makipaghiwalay sa kanya mahal na mahal ko siya

I know that if you didn't love her you couldn't  be here listening to me or asking for help

alam ko na kung hindi mo siya mahal hindi ka naririto na nakikinig sa akin o humihingi ng tulong

and finally recognize some problems are not easily  solved not all differences or difficulties can be  

at sa wakas ay makilala ang ilang mga problema ay hindi madaling malutas hindi lahat ng mga pagkakaiba o paghihirap ay malulutas

resolved communication is a good way to solve some  problems but some things are impossible to change

. Ang komunikasyon ay isang magandang paraan upang malutas ang ilang mga problema ngunit may mga bagay na imposibleng baguhin

it is important to figure out for  yourself what you can accept or  

ito ay mahalaga na malaman mo sa iyong sarili kung ano ang maaari mong tanggapin o

when a relationship is no longer healthy for you

kapag ang isang relasyon ay hindi na malusog para sa iyo

sometimes that person is just not for us  and it's difficult to accept that I know

kung minsan ang taong iyon ay hindi para sa atin at mahirap na tanggapin mo na alam

I hope it's not your case seriously  I hope you can solve your problems

ko sana hindi seryoso ang kaso mo sana masolusyunan mo ang mga problema mo

I hope so thank you so much sir  you've helped me a lot thank you  

sana maraming salamat sir marami kang naitulong sa akin salamat

that's okay and if you want to talk  to someone you can always count on me

ok lang yan at kung may gusto kang kausap lagi kang maaasahan sana

I hope you liked this conversation if you  could improve your English a little more  

ay nagustuhan mo ang pag-uusap na ito kung maaari mong pagbutihin ang iyong Ingles ng kaunti pa

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mangyaring mag-subscribe sa channel at ibahagi ang video na ito sa isang kaibigan at kung nais mong

to support this channel you can join  us or click on the super thanks button  

suportahan ang channel na ito maaari kang sumali sa amin o mag-click sa pindutan ng sobrang salamat

thank you very much for your support take care

salamat talaga mu ch para sa iyong suporta ingat