Practice English Conversation (Questions about life) Improve English Speaking Skills

hello son when you spoke to me on the phone I  heard you a little worried what's happening I  

am not worried or well maybe yeah I'm just curious  because I don't know what to do curious all right  

then tell me how can I help you what can I do for  you well I have a friend well I don't know if he's  

my friend anymore that's the thing when I broke  up with my girlfriend last year I didn't care much  

but then I found out something my best friend  and my ex-girlfriend were dating and he didn't  

tell me anything that's the problem with fought  and stopped talking to each other for a long time  

until this week he came to my house and asked  me to forgive him and I don't know what to do

grandp I mean I don't think I hate him  but I still resent him I wonder should  

I forgive him my father says no because he was  not a good friend but my mother says I should  

do it and I don't know what to do should  I forgive him then I read something in a

book that we should forgive others for our  own good but I didn't get that idea very well  

that's why I came came here I know you have  a lot of experience in life situations like

this I understand I will help you  why you should forgive others for  

your own good forgiveness means different  things to different people but one thing  

we hear often is that forgiving others is  important to the healing process but why  

let's dive in forgiveness is an active  gesture of releasing anger guilt and

resentment all of which have a huge  negative impact on those who Harbor such

feelings forgiveness is linked to better  better mental health by reducing stress and

anxy and also lower in physical  ailments it has already been proven by

experts I know it is not easy it is  a difficult process that requires our

presence so if you ask me if you should forgive  your friend or not I could tell you yes do it  

but it is important to always tell them  that we were really upset they have to

know and you don't need to be friends again if  you don't feel comfortable with that believe

me but if his friendship is important  for you then you should try to reconcile  

yes I guess you're right I think I  will have to think about it I am not

sure and another question Grandpa  why do bad things happen to good

people my friend's mother is sick and  she's a really good person why does that

happen oh that's kind of difficult to explain  many people will tell you it's a part of some  

divine plan the truth is pain is not always  punishment and tragedy is not always part of  

some master plan sometimes bad things just  happen and there isn't anything anyone could  

have done about it we're given Free Will and  we make daily choices that affect our future  

and our experience in life when something  happens to you it may be tempting to think  

that it's God banishing you for something  but that is not always the case if you want  

to find happiness in life don't let pain  suffering Define who you are and your life  

some things happen in this world that has no  explanation and no amount of prayer will change

them what I mean is there are no easy  answers to why bad things happen to good

people but there are some questions that can help  you process your emotions when strategy strikes

that makes sense and is the  purpose of life predetermined from

birth I mean from the moment I am born  as my destiny being established I always  

think about it life is a journey and the biggest  questions of our lives are those we come across  

as we try does success mean the same thing  to everyone how do we find our purpose in

life are our talents predetermined at Birth  or can they be nurtured practiced developed  

and expanded is it possible to pursue a dream  that doesn't fit into society's predetermined  

norms or will it be impossible to achieve  success if we aren't willing to compromise our

values in the end there are no right or wrong  answers and the only thing that matters is  

that makes us feel fulfilled the extent of  how much we enjoy each day is determined  

by the happiness we derive from the things  we do if you want to find your calling you  

have to be able to distinguish between what  brings you Joy and what doesn't what I mean  

is life is short and the most important is  to enjoy all the moments we have if you're  

good at doing something it doesn't mean  you have to do it for the rest of your

life for examp example if you're good at  playing soccer but it doesn't make you feel

happy you don't have to dedicate your  entire life to it you should do things  

you really love because if you really love  to do it you will improve at it that's for

sure I needed to hear that that because  I am really good at playing the piano but  

I don't really like it my dad says that is my  purpose of life but I don't think it is I like

cooking I am not good at cooking  but I enjoy doing it I want to study

Gastronomy that's fantastic I support your  decision I sure you will be an excellent

chef and is it okay if I compare my life  to someone else my father always tells me  

you should be like your cousin he works in  a very important company and has a lot of

money everyone's journey is different we  should not try to copy someone else's life

path of course it doesn't mean we cannot  get inspired but remember we are all

different yeah you're right do people  possess souls and if so where are they in the

body that's a difficult question too I can  answer you but it will have to be on the  

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