12 BEST Ways to Give Advice in English | How to speak better English

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Hi there, this is Harry and welcome back to  advanced English classes with Harry. Yep, that's  
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Okay, enough of that. So what do we got for you  today? Well, in the advanced class today, we're  
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looking at English speaking. And in particular,  we're going to look at useful phrases that you  
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can use for giving advice. Okay, so we have 12  of them. 12 useful phrases for giving advice.  
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Whether you want to, or you insist on giving the  particular advice, these are some phrases that  
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you can use. I'll go through them. And then I'll  give you some examples. And then we can pick up  
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on them again. And at the end, I'll give you our  contact details, if you wish to get in contact  
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with us. So all useful phrases, and how you can  offer or give advice to somebody. So let's give  
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you a few examples. They are not so difficult.  Problem will be trying to remember them all. And  
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as I always say, it's going to be impossible to  remember them all. And the only way to remember  
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any of them is to practise. So why don't you  try practising them with a friend next time.  
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He or she asks for a view or you want to offer  advice, try and use some of these expressions.
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So let's look at the first  one. Isn't it about time...?  
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Well, famous one for parents. Isn't  it about time you got a haircut?  
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Isn't it about time you got into some study? Those  exams are only a few weeks away. It's almost the  
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end of term, you have a lot of work to catch up  on. Isn't it about time you did something? Isn't  
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it about time you went to bed? You've been up half  the night and you've been playing those computer  
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games, and you've got school tomorrow. So classic  expression for parents, isn't it about time?
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Have you thought about the possibility of...  going away to university away from the city?  
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Start again, go somewhere new and new beginning.  Have you thought about the possibility of working  
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during the summer? Getting some money together so  that you can support yourself in the next term.  
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Have you thought about the possibility of changing  your course? Perhaps this one doesn't really suit  
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you. You've failed a couple of exams and it seems  to be a little bit of a struggle. And you know,  
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it's no harm and changing. You're young, you can  start again, you'll be 23- 24 when you finish  
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the course. So what whether you're 23 or 24, is  not going to make a big difference. So have you  
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thought about the possibility of changing  something, of doing this, of going here.
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The sooner you do something, the better.  The sooner you get down to doing some work,  
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the better. The sooner you contact those people,  the better. There... It's not going to fix itself.  
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So this might be a situation in work, when you're  trying to give some advice to a younger member of  
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staff. The sooner you call the client, the better.  Explain to him what happened. He'll understand  
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things happen, mistakes happen, problems happen,  we can get it sorted. It's not the end of the  
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world. So the sooner you call him, the better. So  you know, when you do your to-do list. I do one,  
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every day. I have my little list of five or six or  10, whatever they happen to be. And the sooner you  
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do the more difficult jobs on your to-do list, the  better. You'll feel much better. The sooner you  
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get those done, then it's easier to do the rest.  So the sooner you start, the better you will feel.  
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The sooner you start on the diet, the better you  will feel longterm. The sooner you start that new  
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course of exercises, the better your back will  feel. So you go to the doctor and he tells you,  
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you really need to get those muscles in shape. So  you go to the gym, and you get their workout from  
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the personal trainer. And like everybody he will  tell you, the sooner you start, the better. So  
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let's start today. Let's not waste any more time  do it today. Yeah, tomorrow, the next day, you're  
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going to feel a little bit stiff. That always  happens. But you know, when you get used to it,  
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you will feel better. So the sooner you start, the  better. Now the sooner you do this, the better.
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Next you might as well. And as said with a little  bit of an exclamation, you might as well. What's  
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the alternative? If you don't, if this doesn't  work, but you just have to do something else. You  
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might as well get the bus because it looks  as if the car isn't going to start today.  
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You might as well walk because it's  only 20 minutes. It's a bit of exercise.  
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You might as well come home now because  you know it looks as if your friends  
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aren't going to turn up. So you're giving  somebody that advice. So you might as well,  
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okay. We might as well go to bed because there  doesn't seem to be anything interesting on TV.  
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That movie doesn't look so good. And I'm not  really so keen on watching it to one o'clock  
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and finding out that it's actually rubbish. So we  might as well. We might as well go to bed. We you  
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might as well do this. So you're telling somebody  that they really don't have or doesn't look as if  
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they have any other choice, you might as well.  So we're deciding what to do for holidays,  
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we might as well just go down the country for a  few days. You know, the airport these days really,  
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really busy. It seems to be huge, huge queues,  since this COVID ended. We might as well just  
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stay local. The weather seems to be really,  really good. We'll drive down to the country  
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get a chance to walk in the countryside. We  haven't done it for ages. So we might as well.
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Your only option is to... Well, when you give  this sort of advice, it appears as as if there's  
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no alternative. Your only option is to go to the  boss and tell him that you made a mistake. What's  
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he going to do? He's not going to fire you. You  know, it's not that serious. But your only option  
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because if he finds out later on, and you didn't  tell him well, of course, then the problem is  
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going to be that much worse. Your only option is  go to the teacher and and tell her you lost the  
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book. Yeah, she lent you the book, you can't find  it, you must have left it on the park bench. Or  
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you must have left it on the table at school and  somebody's taken it. So your only option is to  
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hold up your hands, apologise, say, Yep,  it was my fault. That's your only option.  
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Well, if you ask me, your only option is to  go to the doctor tell him you haven't been  
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feeling. Well, tell him the symptoms. Don't be  worried about it. I mean, it could be nothing.  
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But you might just need a bit of rest. Or  you might need a little bit of medication,  
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or something like that. So I think your only  option to understand what's happening is to go  
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and see the doctor. Otherwise, you're just going  to drive yourself and myself mad. Is it this? Is  
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it that? Looking up Google, you know, it's no  way to... to self medicate. Okay, so your only  
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option is to go make an appointment with the  doctor. It'd be fine. Everything would be okay.
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When you have no alternative, well, you have no  choice but... Okay. So you're wanting to know  
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what you do. You've been looking at the window,  and you see somebody behaving a bit strangely.  
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But I think you have no choice but to call the  police. You know, that's, that's not normal.  
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That's not natural. Why would somebody be climbing  over the wall when they can knock on the door.  
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So your only option is to call the police.  You have no choice, but to call the police.
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It might be in your interests to... Well, when can  we use this when we're giving advice to somebody,  
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it might be in your interest to do a pre-course  before you start the new course. It seems to me  
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to be a lot involved. So if you spend a couple  of weeks doing a little bit of pre-study,  
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it might make things a little bit more interesting  or a little... a little bit easier for you.  
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It might be in your interest to let them know  that you want this job. You know, there's a  
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vacancy in your department, and you're wanting  to know whether they will offer it to you. But  
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if you don't let them know that you're interested,  how are they supposed to know. So it might be in  
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your interests, it might be to your advantage  to let them know that you would really like to  
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be considered for that particular position. Okay.  So when you say it might be in your interests to  
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there's an advantage, there's a definite advantage  for you. And letting somebody know that, Yeah, you  
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really would like to be considered. So it might be  in your interests to do this. It might be in your  
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interest to take a few days off. Why don't you  relax a little bit? You've been working very hard  
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recently. That work you did it over the winter was  really, really difficult. So you know, take a few  
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days off, take a break, and you feel a lot better.  So it might be in your interest just to chill out.
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You might want to call him. You might want  to do something else. So say when you give  
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advice you might want to it means you think  that the person might like to do... take a  
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certain action. You might want to call him  and tell him you're going to be late. I think  
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the traffic is really really heavy. So if you if  you don't call him, he might leave. So you know,  
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you don't want him to leave before you get there.  So you might want to call him. You might want to  
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call on the... to the supermarket on the way home  and pick up a few pieces of food because there's  
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nothing really in the fridge. And if we're going  to stay in tonight, then we'll need to eat. So  
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we need to cook something. So you might want to  call into the supermarket. Okay, yeah, good. What  
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will I get? So they give you the list and you  to call in to the supermarket on the way home.
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You might want to consider taking a holiday in  July. That new project is going to start in August  
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and you won't have any time to take holidays then.  So you might want to consider taking your annual  
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holidays in July. And that way you'll be really  refreshed when it comes down to this new project,  
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this new assignment that you're going to have.  You might want to consider taking an extra year  
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and... in university. This is really getting on  top of you. You've failed a couple of exams. And  
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you might want to consider repeating year  two or year three, just so you get really  
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on top of it. And you're not putting yourself  under undue pressure to complete the course,  
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in the four years, four or five years,  it doesn't really make any difference.  
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So you might want to consider doing this.  Or you might want to consider doing that.
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Make sure you do or make sure you don't. Make sure  you turn off the lights when you leave the house.  
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Make sure you don't leave on the  lights before you leave the house.  
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Make sure you let the dog out in the morning.  Make sure you don't leave the dog in the house  
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all day without taking him for a walk. So, bit of  advice. Make sure you feed the goldfish only but  
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only once a week. Make sure you don't forget  to feed the goldfish while I'm away. Okay,  
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so to make sure you do and make sure you don't,  it's the same meaning but just in a slightly  
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different way one in the positive one in the  negative giving somebody advice. Make sure you  
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take those tablets. It says in the packet two a  day with meals. Make sure you don't take too many,  
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or make sure you don't forget to take them  again, the same instruction, the same advice.
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Something is worth a try. But we use this  expression about advice. When... well,  
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what harm can it do? So it's worth a try. It might  not work, it might not succeed. But you know what?  
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If you don't try, you won't know. So anything and  everything is worth a try. Do you think they still  
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have some of those jackets that I was looking at  it? I looked at one last week. Sure go in and see,  
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it's worth a try. But why don't you check it  on the internet first of all. You might see  
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it. Or they might tell you, it's sold out. So  it's worth a try. So when you want something,  
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and you're not quite sure what the advice you  can give somebody, Yeah, it's worth a try. If you  
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don't succeed, what have you lost? If you don't  try, you'll never never know. It's worth a try.
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It might be a good idea to... Well, it might be  a good idea to think about it before you do it.  
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Okay, so sit back, remember the last time you...  you did something without really thinking about  
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it, and you made a big mistake. So it might be  a good idea to think this over before you... you  
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apply. You've got a few days left, I don't think  the closing date for applications is until next  
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week. So don't rush into it and do it immediately.  It might be good idea, maybe to talk to your  
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professor, to talk to your teacher. So it would  be a good idea to check things out. It would be a  
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good idea to do a little bit of investigation. It  would be good idea to do a little bit of research.  
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Check it out, see what other people think. It  might be a good idea to check out the reviews on  
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the Internet. It might be a good idea to check out  whether this place is as good as they say it is,  
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as good as the advertisement. So it looks  wonderful in the pictures, but you know  
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what pictures can do? They can airbrush them. So  why don't we check it out online? See what the  
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reviews are like before we book the hotel, before  we book the holiday because we don't want to get  
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there and find out it's not what we had expected.  Okay, so it might be a good idea to do something.
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And then finally, just simply how about. That's  a great way to start a bit of advice. How about  
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going out for a meal tonight? How about going  away for a few days? Just the two of us, the  
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kids are away. How about getting those bicycles  out of the garage, cleaning them off and going  
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for a cycle? How about joining the gym? We keep  promising we're going to do. So whatever it is,  
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we can give advice by just simply saying How  about? Okay. And it introduces you to everything  
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very, very open. Very gentle. Very easy. Very  informal way for you to offer advice to somebody.  
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How about improving your English? Why don't you  join one of those courses? How about joining a  
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book club? Yeah, we can... we love reading,  and it'd be nice idea good way to meet some  
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new neighbours, some new friends. It might be  interesting to see a few new faces. How about?
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Okay, so all interesting ways in which you can  give some nice advice, whole hearted advice,  
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friendly advice, personal advice to somebody  that you know and hold dear to your heart.
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So let me give them to you again.  Isn't it about time you did something?  
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Have you thought about the possibility of going  away? The sooner you do it, the better it will be.  
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You might as well because it looks as if  there's no other alternative. You might as well.  
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Your only option is to put your hands up and admit  to it, you made a mistake. Your only option is...  
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You have no choice but to go with it.  
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It might be in your interests, or indeed it  might be in your best interests to do this.  
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You might want to consider reapplying. You might  want to consider doing your driving test sooner  
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rather than later. You might want to make  sure you do or make sure you don't. Make  
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sure you switch off the lights. Make sure  you don't forget to switch off the lights.  
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The sooner you start, the better. The sooner  you do something, the better you will feel.  
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It's worth a try. Now, everything is worth  a try. Who knows you might be successful,  
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it's worth a try. It might be... it might  be a good idea to reconsider. It might be  
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a good idea to think carefully. It might  be a good idea to do some research. It  
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might be a good idea to... And then finally,  just simply How about? How about this? How  
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about this? Or that? How about going here?  How about going there? Okay, so how about?
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So all ways of using expressions to give  advice. So this is all about English speaking  
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all about useful ways that you can offer advice  to friend or family or whoever it might be. Okay,  
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so, as I said before, and then  all the other classes we've had,  
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practise a few of them. Try and use a few  of them today tomorrow with your friends.  
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You don't have to remember them all. Some of  them can be a little bit confusing at first,  
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but just keep practising. And anytime you're  asked for advice, try and use one or two of them.
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And if you have any problems, well, then you can  contact me at www.englishlessonviaskype.com. If  
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you need some more examples, I'll gladly  give them to you. If you have some ideas  
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or something that you want me to include in  future advanced classes, then let me know.
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As always, I really appreciate your  listening. I really appreciate your watching,  
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and I really really would appreciate it  if you can like us and we can get to do  
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more and more of these classes for  you. As always. Join me again soon.
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