Growth Mindset 🧠 to Learn English Easily | Go Natural English

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What is up
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Welcome back to Go Natural English the place for you to become fluent and confident in your English speaking
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my name is Gabby and I am so excited to share with you today how to
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cultivate a growth mindset
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for English fluency if you have been struggling and
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Frustrated for some time now because it just doesn't seem like you will ever become fluent in English
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Well, I have a question for you. Have you
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cultivated a growth mindset
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have you prepared your
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mind or your mindset for
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Successful learning this is super important actually more important than any
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specific English lesson on grammar or vocabulary or pronunciation
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Before we learn any of those important details, we need to set the stage
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We need to give ourselves a solid foundation
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Which is a growth mindset. So first, let me give you a little background about what is a growth
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mindset and then I'll explain how
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You can cultivate it
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This is really important because it's all about the way that you think the way that you react to your situation
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I have actually written at length about this for you in my audio
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Ebook the English fluency formula. There's a chapter on
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Mindset and how to develop your growth mindset. This is a guide a
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strategic
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Formula to help you to understand exactly what you need for English fluency
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especially for speaking and listening skills to sound more like a native and to
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Understand anybody when they speak English so you should definitely get your digital online
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copy today when you purchase it at gonaturalenglish.com/ebook
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You will get instant access
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You can read the text
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You can listen to the audio and you can do both at the same time
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To improve your listening and reading skills. You'll improve your vocabulary
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you will learn a lot about what to focus on and what not to focus on the difference between
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the English you learned in your textbook and
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real-world native speaker English and
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strategies and practice ideas
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This is a short and practical guide that will help you to jump start to fast
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forward to
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Rocket fuel or launch your English fluency, so I highly recommend it
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All of my best tips are in here GoNaturalEnglish.com/ebook
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I will put that link in the description down there as well the
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opposite of a growth mindset is a
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Fixed mindset and just like the name it means that you believe that your brain is
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Fixed in place and it will not change
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people with a fixed mindset
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Believe that you simply are who you are and you're not going to change
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You're not going to get better through effort
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You're simply born with a certain amount of talent and it's not gonna change
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So why bother so if you've ever caught yourself
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thinking these thoughts you
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Might have a fixed mindset. I'm no good at English. I'll never be good at English
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why are other people so lucky those people who can speak English fluently and
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Especially I cannot let anyone
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See me make a mistake because they're going to think that I'm not smart
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Okay, let's turn this around and learn about a growth
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mindset first and foremost a growth mindset is
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Positive you may have noticed that a fixed mindset
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Has a lot of negativity a lot of I'm not smart or I'll never speak English
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My English is not good, but with a growth mindset, we do focus on the positive
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so this is important because
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we believe with a growth mindset that you can change that your brain is capable of
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Improvements and change throughout your lifetime and that yes your effort
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Does equate success your effort is key. It is paramount to your success
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And so it is through your effort that you will reach success and not just through your god-given
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Inherited innate
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inherent qualities that you were born with and honestly, I prefer a growth mindset because it gives us hope
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Now I know there's going to be some realists out there in the comments saying well
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Not everyone can be good at everything and that's true
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however
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It is realistic to say that if you put effort into something
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You will probably improve a growth mindset is not only thinking
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Positive or only thinking happy thoughts
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it is the deep belief that we are all capable of improvement through effort and
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this idea this theory of the fixed versus growth mindset was popularized by
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Stanford University
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researcher Carol Dweck in her book
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Mindset. Now let me share a several ways that you can easily quickly and
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Freely cultivate your growth mindset for a better base for learning English today
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first of all, you must acknowledge
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or see
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Your mistakes do not run away from them. Do not avoid them. They are here to help
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You see your mistakes and understand how to learn from them
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we need to learn from the mistakes of others be observant of your
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Classmates your friends your colleagues who are also learning English and learn from their mistakes too. This is where you can really
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Improve quickly when you're not only learned from your own mistakes
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But from the mistakes of others and why not help your friends by making some mistakes of your own that they can learn from too
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the important thing here is to
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consistently
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Look at how to improve the mistakes you make and I do recommend that you work with a teacher or a tutor
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or someone who's more advanced than you in English so that they can help you spot your mistakes because sometimes when you're learning
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You don't know
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What you don't know you don't know when you're making a mistake. So reach out and get some help learn to give and receive
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constructive
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Criticism I know that it can be uncomfortable to hear when you made a mistake. But if you accept your mistakes as
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Gifts to help you learn then you'll look forward to constructive criticism
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When your teacher tells you, hey, you made a mistake. So understand that we are all
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Improving every single last one of us. In fact, it means that you are on this beautiful journey of improvement
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which is much better than someone with a fixed mindset who is
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Stagnating at the same level forever
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Next I have a problem with the word problem
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I highly recommend that we banish the word problem from our vocabulary and replace it with the word
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Challenge in most cases it still makes sense
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but if we think of problems as challenges and
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challenges as fun ways to improve also known as
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Opportunities then we can really change the way that we think about
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Difficult situations. So instead of saying oh, I have a problem with English grammar, especially those pesky
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Perfect tenses think mmm
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Those perfect tenses are a challenge, but I have an opportunity to improve by overcoming that obstacle
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next understand yourself know thyself and your preferred learning
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modality or style if you're someone who likes to talk things through like I do then maybe learning by
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listening and speaking or having a conversation partner would be especially helpful for
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You if you're someone who loves to take notes and write everything down make sure that you always have your notebook
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Handy know yourself and lean into the way that you like to learn
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Not everyone learns in the same way and that's okay
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traditionally we have been taught to seek the approval of our teachers and our families and
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authority figures
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But if you want a growth mindset, do not simply seek approval
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seek
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Experiences that you can learn from so do not seek your teacher saying good job
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seek that experience that you can learn from
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The actual improvement that you experience through your learning process. When you seek approval
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You are often afraid to make mistakes
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because you don't want to have the
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Disapproval of your teacher that might come from making mistakes. Remember your brain has the capacity to improve
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Over your lifetime it can change especially if you develop the right mindset and good
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learning habits that said many English learners are impatient to get to that finish line that
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Fluency finish line as if it was a sprint and you want to run as fast as you can to get to the end
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But I'm sorry to say that
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Fluency in any language is a skill that needs to be trained over time
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It's more like a marathon, but even then it's not really something with a finish line. And so
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learning English becoming fluent is a
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Process it is a journey. It is honestly a
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lifetime endeavor, and yes, of course
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you can reach a finish line of sorts when you are content with your level and confident in your
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Communication but let's not focus on are we there yet. Are we there yet? How about now?
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Are we there? How long is this going to take? Let's focus instead on the actual learning process and
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Enjoy the process. Enjoy the journey, really
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Feel that wonderful feeling of learning and take a moment to appreciate that
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Related to that, you can reward yourself for the effort that you put in to studying and not
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Simply your results. So instead of
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Rewarding yourself if your teacher says good job
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Or if you get a good grade on a test, you could instead or additionally reward yourself for
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10 hours of study time at the end of the week if you are satisfied with your study habits
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reward yourself reward yourself for the process for the
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effort that you are putting in to reaching your goals because honestly,
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Sometimes you can't control the results if you take a test
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Sometimes you can't control the way your teacher grades. Am I right?
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Sometimes teachers are not in a good mood and you get lower marks for that
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It's not your fault if you are working and using English on the job
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You can't always control how your presentation or meeting goes
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But you can control the effort that you put into improving your English fluency
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Remember that it takes time to learn give yourself time and be patient. Don't rush yourself
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let yourself explore the language and be curious and
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Learn different things as you have questions or curiosity about different topics in English
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We all know what happens when we try to learn quickly or to cram for a test. A week later
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You don't remember
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anything and this is why many English learners struggle to
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Speak because you cram so quickly to pass a test
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But you haven't internalized
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the English language and you may not have had to study the right things anyway for that test, so it is better to
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learn deeply and learn well than to learn quickly. Create a sense of
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Purpose when you feel a little bit down or frustrated or tired
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It is your purpose that will motivate you. So make sure you know your purpose. Why are you learning English?
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What is your reason is it because you want to use English in your career?
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Or maybe when you travel or maybe you know someone who speaks English and you want to be closer to that person
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There are a million different reasons why you might be learning English. And in fact, I would love to know your reasons
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Would you tell me in the comments what your reason is for learning English?
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I would love to know every day or at least every week make sure to
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reflect on your learning and I don't mean review like review your flashcards or look at your notes again, I mean
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Actually spend some time thinking about your study habits and the effort that you put in reflect and ask
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Yourself how was my effort this week or today? How did I do as a learner? Am I satisfied
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with myself
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This is far different from simply reviewing a list of vocabulary words, which is also a good idea
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but when you reflect on your learning process
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You will definitely learn how to improve your process
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and therefore your results will come faster think of English fluency as a game or a
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Sport it's just like playing a sport
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in fact
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You have to train in order to keep your skills up and develop new ones if you wanted to be
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fluent immediately in English as many of my students do that's kind of like just picking up a new
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sport and then the following week going to the Olympics to compete
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You're probably going to get hurt its importance with sports
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training and English to really put the time in to understand the sport to
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Stretch a little bit and to train and build up your skills and make sure that you train by
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Actually playing the sport or actually speaking English from day one
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This is very important because imagine you wanted to play tennis in the Olympics
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But you only read about tennis perhaps you
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pulled up Wikipedia and read the rules of the game, but you never actually
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Played on a court that's kind of what most English learners have to do in an English classroom
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You just read the grammar rules, but you don't get a chance to speak
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I'm telling you it is so important to train by speaking from day one
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but give yourself time be patient and approach English as
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Training as a game as a sport that you are going to build your endurance for so that you can be a superstar
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athlete or a fluent confident English speaker. Cultivate
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resilience because there will be times when you feel
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Frustrated or embarrassed about mistakes that you make it is tiring to speak in a second language
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especially when you're at the intermediate level, I know I
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Know but be resilient if you fall down seven times get up eight
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If you fall down if you make a mistake you get back up again
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Because that is what winners do that is what successful
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English learners do and that is what you are capable of doing now
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The most important is to never stop learning keep learning new things each day
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and remember that life is better when you're learning when you reach your old goals make new ones and
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Continue with the process of English fluency. It's a beautiful experience
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If you have a growth mindset
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so remember to treat your brain as something that can improve and grow
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Figuratively speaking
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Give your brain some sunshine
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positive thoughts and a bit of water the right studying materials and some effort and before you know it you'll have a
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beautiful English fluency
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