Control the Conversation in English #shorts

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Have you ever been caught off guard or felt shocked by
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a question that was way too personal or maybe even controversial,
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like someone at work asking you, so who are you gonna vote for?
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Or why don't you have kids?
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It's uncomfortable when someone asks a question that is too personal,
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inappropriate, rude, or invasive.
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The key to handling this is knowing how to steer or control the
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conversation. There are several strategies we can use to do this successfully,
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and one of my favorites is to turn the question back to
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the person who asked,
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and in the process try to understand why are they asking me this question,
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for example. That's interesting. Why do you want to know?
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That's a personal question. Why are you asking? Good question,
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but you first, what would you say to that?
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