Fully Present ADVANCED Speaking English

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English Coach Chad


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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what are we going to do here we're going toย  practice speaking English Advanced Englishย ย 
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ธ๊ฐ€? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์˜์–ด
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speaking practice we're going to use the shadowingย  method and I got to ask you are you fully presentย ย 
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๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์„€๋„์ž‰ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ด์•ผ ํ• 
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for this you have to be fully present all rightย  let's jump right into it here we go have you everย ย 
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๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์กด์žฌ
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had a conversation with someone who didn't seemย  fully present have you all right I want you toย ย 
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ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
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Shadow me say it with me here we go have youย  ever had a conversation with someone who didย ย 
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๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐ€์„œ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋งํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์™„์ „ํžˆ ์กด์žฌํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
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didn't seem fully present again have you everย  had a conversation with someone who didn't seemย ย 
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๋‹ค์‹œ๋Š” ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค. ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด
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fully present have you ever had a conversationย  with someone who didn't seem fully present haveย ย 
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์žˆ๋Š”๊ฐ€? ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€
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you ever had a conversation with someone whoย  didn't seem fully present have you ever had aย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๊ฐ€? ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๊ฐ€? ๋‹น์‹ ์€
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conversation with someone who didn't seem fullyย  present did I say it too many times did I didย ย 
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆˆ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ž์ฃผ ๋งํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
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I bore you I'm sorry I should really tell youย  what um present is if you are present you areย ย 
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?์ฃ„์†กํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ํ˜„์žฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
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focusing on something you're focusing ing onย  something you're present so here's an exampleย ย 
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๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ~์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์กด์žฌํ•˜๋ฏ€๋กœ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์˜ˆ๋ฌธ
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sentence I'm present in this conversation andย  listening carefully to what you're saying I amย ย 
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๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š”
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present in this conversation all right here's ourย  next sentence maybe they were distracted by theirย ย 
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์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์— ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์กŒ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
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phone or it felt like they were more focused onย  what they were going to say next maybe they wereย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋” ์ง‘์ค‘ํ–ˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
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distracted by their phone or it felt like theyย  were more focused on on what they were going toย ย 
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ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์— ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์กŒ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋” ์ง‘์ค‘
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say next maybe they were distracted by theirย  phone or it felt like they were more focusedย ย 
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ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์—ˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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on what they were going to say next maybe theyย  were distracted by their phone or it felt likeย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์— ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์กŒ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‹ค์Œ์—
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they were more focused on what they were going toย  say next all right it can be a bit isolating rightย ย 
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๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋” ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ .
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a bit isolating it can be a bit isolating right aย  bit isolating is feel a little lonely it can feelย ย 
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ . ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์™ธ๋กœ์›€์„ ๋Š๋‚€๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์™ธ๋กœ์›€์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ฃ .
02:04
a little lonely right it can feel a little lonelyย  right it can be a bit isolating right yeah it canย ย 
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ์™ธ๋กœ์›€์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ฃ . ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ . ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ .
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be a bit isolating right right we all know theย  joy of feeling truly heard whether it's sharingย ย 
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ . ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ . ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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our thoughts worries or even a light-hearted jokeย  being listened to is powerful yeah you want peopleย ย 
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์ƒ๊ฐ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฑฑ์ •์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ์ง€๋ผ๋„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๊ท€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ํž˜์„ ๋ฐœํœ˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๋งž์•„์š”, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
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to listen to you right we all know the joy ofย  feeling truly heard we all know the joy of feelingย ย 
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ์ฃ .์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด์ค€๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์˜ ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด์ค€๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์˜ ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์ƒ๊ฐ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฑฑ์ •์„
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truly heard whether it's sharing our thoughtsย  worries or even a light-hearted joke beingย ย 
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๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ์ง€๋ผ๋„, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ์ง€๋ผ๋„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๊ท€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ํž˜์„ ๋ฐœํœ˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ƒ๊ฐ, ๊ฑฑ์ • ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์กฐ์ฐจ๋„
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listened to is powerful again we all know theย  joy of feeling truly heard whether it's sharingย ย 
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๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ํž˜์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ ค์ง€๋Š” ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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our thoughts worries or even a light-hearted jokeย  joke being listened to is powerful again we allย ย 
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์ƒ๊ฐ, ๊ฑฑ์ • ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์กฐ์ฐจ๋„ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ํž˜์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ ค์ง€๋Š”
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know the joy of feeling truly heard whetherย  it's sharing our thoughts worries or even aย ย 
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๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์€ ์ƒ๊ฐ, ๊ฑฑ์ •, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด
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light-hearted joke being listened to is powerfulย  one more time we all know the joy of feeling trulyย ย 
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๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์— ์˜ํ•ด ๋”์šฑ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์˜ ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ,
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heard whether it's sharing our thoughts worriesย  or even a light-hearted joke being listened toย ย 
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์ƒ๊ฐ, ๊ฑฑ์ •, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์— ์˜ํ•ด ๋”์šฑ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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is powerful but sometimes even when someoneย  appears to be listening it doesn't feel likeย ย 
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๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋”๋ผ๋„
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they're really connecting with us but sometimesย  even when someone appears to be listening itย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋”๋ผ๋„
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doesn't feel like they're really connecting withย  us but sometimes even when someone appears to beย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ž˜
03:48
listening it doesn't feel like they're reallyย  connecting with us but sometimes even whenย ย 
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๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
03:54
someone appears to be listening it doesn'tย  feel like they're really connecting with usย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€
04:01
today we're going to delve into somethingย  incredibly important the art of listeningย ย 
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์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊นŠ์ด ํŒŒ๊ณ ๋“ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€
04:09
today we're going to delve dive into delveย  into something incredibly important the artย ย 
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์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊นŠ์ด ํŒŒ๊ณ ๋“ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:16
of listening today we're going to delve intoย  something incredibly important the art of
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์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊นŠ์ด ํŒŒ๊ณ ๋“ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:22
listening it's not just about hearing the wordsย  it's about understanding the essence of what'sย ย 
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๊ทธ์ € ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์˜ ๋ณธ์งˆ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:31
being conveyed what's that mean it's aboutย  understanding the essence the pure meaning ofย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋Š” ๋ณธ์งˆ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
what's being transferred over to you what they'reย  saying what they're conveying to you it's not justย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์ˆœ์ˆ˜ํ•œ ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ
04:46
about hearing the words it's about understandingย  the essence of what's being conveyed againย ย 
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๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•ด์„œ ์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์˜ ๋ณธ์งˆ์€
04:52
it's not just about hearing the words it's aboutย  understanding the essence of what's being conveyed
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๋‹จ์ง€ ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“์„ ๋•Œ ์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์˜ ๋ณธ์งˆ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:01
when someone confides in you they'reย  offering a piece of themselves activeย ย 
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์ ๊ทน์ ์ธ
05:09
listening demonstrates that you value thisย  gift so if some when someone confides in youย ย 
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๊ฒฝ์ฒญ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“์„ ๋•Œ
05:19
confides in you if they confide in you theyย  they are trusting you they are telling youย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‹ ๋ขฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ
05:25
something something important and theyย  want they know that they can trust youย ย 
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์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‹ ๋ขฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:29
so they confide in you so they're offering aย  piece of themselves they're opening up to youย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ๋“ค์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์—ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
and they're offering a piece of themselvesย  so active listening you listening carefullyย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ๋“ค์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ ๊ทน์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ์€
05:43
will demonstrate that you value this gift it'sย  important to you and they are they are importantย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€... ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
05:54
to you all right let's Shadow it ready join meย  when someone confides in you they're offering aย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์กด์žฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ?ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋”ฐ๋ผํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์†๋งˆ์Œ์„ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“์„ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
06:01
piece of themselves AC of listening demonstratesย  that you value this gift when someone confidesย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋‚ด์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๊ฒฝ์ฒญ์˜ ์ ๊ทน์„ฑ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์†๋งˆ์Œ์„ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“์„ ๋•Œ
06:08
in you they're offering a piece of themselvesย  active listening demonstrates that you value thisย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋‚ด์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ ๊ทน์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:15
gift so how can we tell if we're good listenersย  here are a few indicators all right let's sayย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์€ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž์ธ์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”? ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ง€ํ‘œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:27
this sentence so so pause right there so how canย  we tell if we're good listeners here are a few
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์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ์ž ๊น ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์€ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž์ธ์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๋‹ค์Œ์€ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€
06:37
indicators so how can we tell ifย  we're good listeners here are a few
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์ง€ํ‘œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์€ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž์ธ์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?๋‹ค์Œ์€ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€
06:45
indicators I have itchy neck right now I had toย  scratch my neck all right when someone speaksย ย 
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์ง€ํ‘œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์ง€๊ธˆ ๋ชฉ์ด ๊ฐ€๋ ค์›Œ์š”. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
06:57
to you do you maintain eye contact we are makingย  eye contact right now maintain eye contact whenย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:08
someone speaks to you do you maintain eyeย  contact do you do you maintain eye contactย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜์„ธ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ๋‹น์‹ ์€
07:14
when someone speaks to you it signifies yourย  interest and engagement in the conversationย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:26
it signifies your interest and engagement in theย  the conversation when someone speaks to you do youย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€ํ™” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ
07:35
maintain eye contact it signifies your interestย  and engagement in the conversation when someoneย ย 
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๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
07:43
speaks to you do you maintain eye contact itย  signifies your interest and engagement in the
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:50
conversation another crucial importantย  crucial sign is body language
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๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:01
are you leaning in nodding or facing the speakerย  another crucial sign is body language are youย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”? ๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋„๋•์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:13
leaning in nodding or facing the speaker anotherย  crucial sign is body language are you leaning inย ย 
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๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋„๋•์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ
08:23
nodding or facing the speaker our body languageย  during conversations can reveal whether weย ย 
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๋„๋•์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
08:33
genuinely care about the other person our bodyย  language during conversations can reveal whetherย ย 
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๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š”
08:41
we genuinely care about the other person our bodyย  language during conversations can reveal whetherย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์•„๋ผ๋Š”์ง€ ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š”
08:50
we genuinely care about the other person openย  body language indicates interests and a desireย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์•„๋ผ๋Š”์ง€ ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š” ๊ด€์‹ฌ
08:59
to hear more and a desire to hear more you want toย  hear more if you have open body language tell meย ย 
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๊ณผ ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ฃ๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋Š” ์š•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๋ฉฐ, ๋” ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋” ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€๋ฐ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋” ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
09:08
more open body language indicates interest and aย  desire to hear more open body language indicatesย ย 
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์—ด๋ฆฐ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š” ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ๋” ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์š•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š”
09:17
interest and a desire to hear more and and aย  desire and a desire and a desire and a desireย ย 
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๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ๋” ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์š•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:26
and a and a and a desire to hear more yet anotherย  essential sign is reframing from interrupting theย ย 
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๋” ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์š•๊ตฌ์™€ a์™€ a ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:39
speaker stop yourself from interrupting thisย  person that is speaking yet another essentialย ย 
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๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ
09:47
sign is pause refraining from interrupting theย  speaker yet another essential sign is reframingย ย 
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์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ์ž ๊น ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ผ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š”
10:00
from interrupting the speaker yet anotherย  essential sign is reframing from interruptingย ย 
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๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๋Š”
10:07
the speaker it can be challenging it can beย  challenging we all feel enthusiastic at timesย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„์ „์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„์ „์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์—ด์ •์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:17
I want to interject interject that means to sayย  something you want to say something you want toย ย 
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ผ์–ด๋“ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ผ์–ด๋“ค๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:25
interrupt it's not interrupt you just want to sayย  you want to say what you want to say you want toย ย 
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๋ฐฉํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐฉํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ์ € ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:30
interject add your your words to the conversationย  it can be challenging we all feel enthusiastic atย ย 
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๋ผ์–ด๋“ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋ง์„ ๋”ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋„์ „์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์—ด์ •์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ผ์–ด
10:40
times and want to interject it can be challengingย  we all feel enthusiastic at times and want to
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๋“ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„์ „์ ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์—ด์ •์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ฐœ์ž…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด
10:47
interject but allowing someone to finish theirย  thought demonstrates respect and provides themย ย 
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์กด์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
10:58
with the space to express themselves fullyย  the space that just means you give them timeย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์„ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ๊ณต๊ฐ„์€ ๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:08
you you don't rush them and you you allowย  them if you provide them with the time theyย ย 
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์„œ๋‘๋ฅด์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:14
need to express themselves fully fully allย  right I'm going to say it here we go butย ย 
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์ด์ œ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
11:23
allowing someone to finish their thoughtย  demonstrates respect and provides themย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์กด์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
11:29
with the space to express themselves fullyย  provides them with a space to express themselves
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์ž์‹ ์„ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”, ์ฒ˜์Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:37
fully okay from the top here we goย  but allowing someone to finish theirย ย 
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
11:44
thought demonstrates respect and providesย  them with the space to express themselvesย ย 
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์กด์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:51
fully finally offering sincere feedbackย  is crucial offering sincere sincere meansย ย 
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ˆ˜๋‹จ
12:01
honest honest feedback is important crucialย  finally offering sincere feedback is crucialย ย 
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์ •์งํ•œ ์ •์งํ•œ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์€ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค ๊ฒฐ์ •์ ์ด๋‹ค ๋งˆ์นจ๋‚ด ์ง„์‹ฌ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฒฐ์ •์ ์ด๋‹ค
12:12
finally offering sincere feedback is crucialย  you say it yes offering sincere feedback is
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๋งˆ์นจ๋‚ด ์ง„์‹ฌ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฒฐ์ •์ ์ด๋‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค ์ง„์‹ฌ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
12:21
crucial when someone finishes speaking it'sย  important to convey that you've been attentiveย ย 
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๊ฒฐ์ •์ ์ด๋‹ค ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ง์„ ๋งˆ์ณค์„ ๋•Œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์„ธ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค
12:29
and empathetic you've been attentiveย  you have been listening and empatheticย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์„ธ์‹ฌํ–ˆ๋‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š”
12:36
that means you care about their feelingsย  ah here's here's another way to say thisย ย 
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๊ฒƒ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š”. ์•„, ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด์—์š”. ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š”
12:43
it's important to show that you areย  listening you are listening you areย ย 
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๊ฑธ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ด์š”. ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ์–ด์š”.
12:49
attentive attentive you have been attentiveย  and you care about their feelings you are
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์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ์–ด์š”. ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์˜€๊ณ  ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š”.
13:00
empathetic all right here we go when someoneย  finishes speaking it's important to convey thatย ย 
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๊ณต๊ฐํ•ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€์ž. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋ง์„ ๋งˆ์น˜๋ฉด ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค.
13:09
you've been attentive and empathetic when someoneย  finishes speaking it's important to convey thatย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋ง์„ ๋งˆ์น˜๋ฉด
13:16
you've been attentive and empathetic attentive andย  empathetic you've been attentive and empathetic
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์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค. ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค.
13:30
good those are big words huh you can achieve thisย  by saying something like that sounds tough or ohย ย 
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์ข‹๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํฐ ๋‹จ์–ด๋“ค์ด๋‹ค. ํ—ˆ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ํž˜๋“ค ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”. ์˜ค,
13:37
I'm happy for you you can achieve this what areย  you achieving you're achieving attentiveness andย ย 
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๊ธฐ๋ป์š”.๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ด๋ฃฐ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ฃผ์˜๋ ฅ๊ณผ ๊ณต๊ฐ์„ ์–ป๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
13:48
empa empathy you achieve this by saying somethingย  like that sounds tough that that sounds toughย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์„ฑ์ทจํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
13:56
that sounds difficult or I'm happy for for youย  that's great I'm so happy that happened to youย ย 
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์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.๋˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ด๋ฃฐ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด ๊ธฐ์˜๋„ค์š”. ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์„œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ธฐ๋ป์š”
14:02
I'm happy for you that sounds tough or I'mย  happy for you don't say it like that say itย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์š” ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋‚˜์š” ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”
14:11
like this I'm happy for you I'm happy for youย  that's better you can achieve this by sayingย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์š” ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋” ๋‚˜์•„์š” ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋งํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹ฌ์„ฑํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:19
something like that sounds tough or I'm happyย  for you all right a simple remark lets them knowย ย 
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ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, "๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ์œผ๋กœ
14:29
that you've listened and are concerned aboutย  their emotions so just a simple comment justย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:38
a simple comment a simple remark comment lets themย  know you heard them you've listened you heard themย ย 
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๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ ์ฝ”๋ฉ˜ํŠธ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„
14:50
and care about their feelings and are concernedย  about their emotions a simple remark lets themย ย 
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๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ์œผ๋กœ
14:58
know that you've listened and are concerned aboutย  their emotions a simple remark lets them know thatย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:05
you've listened and are concerned about theirย  emotions all right that's it that's the wholeย ย 
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:13
text for today it took us some time how long haveย  we been going let's see 15 minutes oh no I'm goingย ย 
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์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ์ „์ฒด ํ…์ŠคํŠธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ข€ ๊ฑธ๋ ธ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๊ฑธ๋ ธ๋‚˜์š”? 15๋ถ„ ์ •๋„ ๊ฑธ๋ ธ๋‚˜์š”? ์•„,
15:19
too slow I'm going way too slow let's say it allย  right now in a smooth smooth clear Voice withoutย ย 
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋Š๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋‹น์žฅ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ๋ง‘์€ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋กœ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋งํ•ด ๋ณด์ž
15:26
stopping say it with me here we go have you everย  had a conversation with someone who didn't seemย ย 
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๋ฉˆ์ถ”์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋งํ•ด ๋ณด์ž ์ด์ œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์ž ์™„์ „ํžˆ [์Œ์•…] ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ  ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๊ฐ€?
15:34
fully [Music] present maybe they were distractedย  by their phone or it felt like they were moreย ย 
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์— ์–ฝ๋งค์—ฌ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด ๋“ค์—ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
15:42
focused on what they were going to say next itย  can be a bit isolating right we all know theย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋” ์ง‘์ค‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š”
15:51
joy of feeling truly heard whether it's sharingย  our thoughts worries or even a lighthearted jokeย ย 
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์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์ด ์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด์ง„๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ธฐ์จ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฑฑ์ •์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋†๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ์ง€๋ผ๋„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ž˜
15:59
being listened to is powerful but sometimes evenย  when someone appears to be listening it doesn'tย ย 
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๋“ค์–ด์ค€๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚˜๋”๋ผ๋„ ๋“ฃ๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
16:07
feel like they're really connecting with usย  today we're going to delve into somethingย ย 
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€
16:14
incredibly important the art of listening it'sย  not just about hearing the words it's aboutย ย 
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์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ, ์ฆ‰ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊นŠ์ด ํŒŒ๊ณ ๋“ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ์ € ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ณ ๋ฐฑํ•  ๋•Œ
16:22
understanding the essence of what's being conveyedย  when someone confides in you they're offering aย ย 
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์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์˜ ๋ณธ์งˆ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
16:30
piece of themselves active listening demonstratesย  that you value this gift so how can we tell ifย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์„ ์ผ๋ถ€ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ ๊ทน์ ์ธ ์ฒญ์ทจ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์€ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž์ธ์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
16:40
we're good listeners here are a few indicatorsย  when someone speaks to you do you maintain eyeย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ง€ํ‘œ๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋‚˜์š”? ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ
16:48
contact it signifies your interest and engagementย  in the conversation another crucial sign is bodyย ย 
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๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๋‚˜์š”? ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด
16:59
language are you leaning in nodding or facing theย  speaker our body language during conversations canย ย 
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์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋„๋•์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋‚˜์š”? ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š”
17:09
reveal whether we genuinely care about the otherย  person open body language indicates interestย ย 
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋Š”์ง€ ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋Š” ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ฐธ์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:18
and a desire to hear more yet another essentialย  sign is refraining from interrupting the speakerย ย 
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๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์š•๊ตฌ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:29
refraining refraining I don't know why I messedย  up I'm sorry yet another essential sign is refrainย ย 
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์™œ ํ‹€๋ ธ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์–ด์š”. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๋Š”
17:37
refraining from interrupting the speaker it canย  be challenging we all feel enthusiastic at timesย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๊ฐ€๋กœ์ฑ„์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„์ „์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์—ด์ •์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ง€๋‚˜๊ณ 
17:46
and want to interject but allowing someone toย  finish their thought demonstrates respect andย ย 
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๊ฐœ์ž…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด๋„ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋ฉด ์กด์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ 
17:54
provides them with the space to express themselvesย  fully finally offering sincere feedback is crucialย ย 
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์€ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:05
when someone finishes speaking it's important toย  convey that you've been attentive and empatheticย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋ง์„ ๋งˆ์ณค์„ ๋•Œ ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐ์ ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:14
you can achieve this by saying somethingย  like that sounds tough or I'm happy forย ย 
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ' ์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”' ๋˜๋Š” '๊ธฐ์˜๋„ค์š”'์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:19
you a simple remark lets them know that you'veย  listened and are concerned about their emotionsย ย 
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๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ง๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๊ท€ํ•˜์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:30
let me say that again a simple remark lets themย  know that you've listened and are concerned aboutย ย 
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๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฐœ์–ธ๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ๊ท€ํ•˜๊ฐ€ ๊ท€ํ•˜ ์˜ ๋ง์”€์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๊ฐ์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ œ๊ฐ€
18:37
their emotions did I get it right that time boomย  we did it good job good workout it's not easy toย ย 
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๊ทธ๋•Œ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋งํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”? ๋ถ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ž˜ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž˜ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šด๋™๋„ ์ž˜ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:45
to say it all nice and smooth even for me keepย  moving forward one step at a time hey let me knowย ย 
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹ค ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‰ฝ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์ข‹๊ณ  ๋งค๋„๋Ÿฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์— ํ•œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์”ฉ ๊ณ„์† ์ „์ง„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
18:51
do you like these longer more Deep dive lessonsย  or do you want me to move a little faster I don'tย ย 
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ธด ์‹ฌ์ธต ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์‹œ๋‚˜์š”? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๊ธธ ์›ํ•˜์‹œ๋‚˜์š”?
18:58
know maybe sometimes it's good for a long lessonย  sometimes a fast lesson I know anyways get allย ย 
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๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ธด ์ˆ˜์—…์— ์ข‹์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๋”์€ ๋น ๋ฅธ ์ˆ˜์—…์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด์จŒ๋“ 
19:05
the steps at englishcoachchad.comย  and I'll see you in the next step
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englishcoachchad.com์—์„œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์–ป์œผ์„ธ์š”. ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์—์„œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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