Top 10 Phrases to Never Use in a Relationship in English

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my name is Bridgette and welcome to today's lesson the topic for this lesson

is top 10 phrases to never use in a relationship let's get started the first

phrase you should never use in a relationship is I told you so I told you

so when someone says I told you so it's a very know-it-all thing to say it means

you know you were right and you want to rub it in that person's face so for

example if you tell someone don't touch that dog that dog bites and that person

touches that dog anyway and the dog bites you would say I told you so I told

you so it's not very nice because it's it's boastful it means that you're

bragging you're making them feel bad for not having listened to you oh I'll do it

myself I'll do it myself when you tell someone oh I'll do it myself

it means that you are not happy with the way the other person did something it

means you think you can probably do it better it's not something you want to

use in a relationship because it makes the other person feel bad like they

didn't do a good job that they did something poorly and it doesn't make

them feel good you never listen to me you never listen to me when you tell

someone you never listened to me it's implying that the other person doesn't

really pay attention to what you say it means that whatever you're talking about

they aren't paying attention if you tell your girlfriend or boyfriend or a wife

or husband you never listen to me that means two

things it means one that you feel that what you have to say is very important

so if you say you never listen to me you're implying that what you have to

say has great consequence that the other person should be listening at all times

but what it could also mean is that the other person just isn't listening to you

and listening is a very important part of a relationship your significant other

should always be able to listen to you and hear what you have to say and pay

attention to your feelings we should talk we should talk when you

tell someone we should talk or we need to talk it's usually going to scare the

other person when you say we should talk or we need to talk it means you want to

sit down with the other person and have a serious conversation a lot of times

that might mean you're going to break up it means that you have something

important to tell the other person but you want to do it in person never mind

when you say never mind it means forget it stop paying attention think about

something else I don't want to talk anymore

so if you start to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend something it could be your

feelings and you say you know lately I've been feeling and then you stop and

you say nevermind that is telling the other person just to stop paying

attention to stop listening just don't think about it never mind when you tell

the other person to never mind it makes it seem like you're belittling

your own feelings it makes it seem like you don't want to share your own

feelings with your significant other which isn't a good thing because in a

relationship you always want to be able to talk to one another it's all your

fault it's all your fault this is thing you never want to say in a

relationship it means that if you get into a fight and you say it's all your

fault that's putting the blame entirely on the other person and a lot of times

in a relationship if you fight or if something happens a lot of times both of

you are probably a little bit at fault it means you both are to blame if you

tell someone it's all your fault it makes it seem like you think you are

perfect it makes it seem like you think that you are totally free of all fault

you're not culpable it has nothing to do with you you're an angel the other

person is at fault so if you tell your boyfriend your girlfriend your husband

your wife if you tell them it's all your fault

it's not a nice thing to say especially because it probably isn't only their

fault it takes two to tango you overreact too much you overreact

too much this is something for you men out there that you do not want to tell

your significant other you never want to tell a girl you're overreacting or calm

down or you overreact too much when you tell someone they're overreacting it

means that their reaction was so far above what should be normal for this

situation but a lot of times it's not up to you to decide if you tell someone you

overreact too much that's telling someone else how they should be feeling

and how they should be reacting to a situation which is not your place

you've changed you've changed if you tell someone you've changed

you've changed since I first met you it implies that the person has become

different that may be parts of his or her

personality have begun to change a bit which might be a bad thing in some cases

if the person is mean or angry but a lot of times in a

relationship you do want to change you want to change together you want to grow

together so telling someone you've changed in a negative way isn't

something that someone wants to hear you've gained a lot of weight you've

gained a lot of weight never ever ever say this to someone in a relationship

you never want to tell your girlfriend or boyfriend that they've gained weight

if you tell someone you've gained weight it means you're telling them that they

look heavier they look fatter they look bigger and that's not something anyone

wants to hear from the person that they care about or they love so even if you

think your girlfriend or boyfriend has gained weight you don't want to tell

them this way because it's not very nice and it's only going to hurt their

feelings whatever whatever this is something I am

guilty of to say whatever whatever it's it's a word that you use in a

conversation to imply that you do not care anymore if you say whatever

whatever it's very dismissive it's not very nice

to hear especially if your boyfriend or girlfriend is saying something that they

believe is important or that they want you to listen to if you react by saying

whatever it means that you don't really care what they have to say that brings

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