VOCABULARY English Speaking Practice

what do we got here speaking vocabulary  caring too much about what others think  

that is the topic of the vocabulary well  actually tomorrow's lesson and the next  

lesson the next two lessons will use the  vocabulary that we practice today so let's  

take a look at it our first word phrase is  fit in so if you fit in you feel accepted  

you feel like you are part of the group you  fit in all right listen and repeat listen  

carefully and say it Kim changed her hairstyle  because she wanted to fit in with her new

friends one more time okay  one more time Kim changed  

her hairstyle because she wanted  to fit in with her new friends

Kim changed her hairstyle because  she wanted to fit in with her new

friends did you repeat that I should have said  repeat after me I don't have to say every time  

you should already know by now all right  repeat after me Kim changed her hairstyle  

because she wanted to fit in with her new

friends all right speaking practice  that's what we're doing left out now  

if you feel left out you feel excluded you  feel ignored I'm left out I'm not part of the

group when no one invited her  to the party she felt left out

when no one invited her to the party she felt left

out when no one invited her  to the party she felt left

out I almost sneezed it's uh right  now it's a the pollen season I I get  

hay fever I have hay fever I'm  sneezing a lot so if I sneeze  

during this lesson please forgive me anyways  when no one invited her to the party when no  

one invited her her her Becomes Her when no  one invited her to the party she felt left

out all right crave a strong desire  for something I crave it I crave ice  

cream all right listen after  a long day I crave peace and

quiet after after a long day  at work I crave peace and

quiet after a long day I crave peace and

quiet measure one's value now that means to  decide how important or worthy your value is  

measure one's value to measure your value measure  

his value measure her value your job  title doesn't measure your value as a

person your job title doesn't  measure your value as a

person give away our power your power his  power to let others control your feelings or

decisions you let others take  your power you give your power  

away don't give away your power by  letting negative comments ruin your

day you are in control so don't give away your  power by letting negative comments ruin your

day don't give away away your power  by letting negative comments ruin your

day that's right if you let  negative comments ruin your  

day that means you let them ruin your  day you decide then you give away your

power give importance to to think something or  someone is important so if you give importance  

to it then you think it's important  or that person is important or that  

thing is important what do you give  importance to do you give importance  

to your time all right here's this it's  easy to give importance to what Strangers

think but it's better to focus on those who love

you it's easy to give in  importance to what Strangers  

think but it's better to focus on those who love

you all right shift the focus now if you shift the  focus you change your attention from one thing to  

another so you're focusing on this let's shift  our Focus over here let's shift our Focus over  

here instead of worrying about others a pain  opinions shift the focus to how you can help

someone that's a long sentence isn't  it it's hard to remember everything  

when it's a long sentence instead of worrying  about others instead of worrying about others

opinions shift the focus  to how you can help someone

I didn't say that very smoothly didn't  I did I all right instead of worrying  

about others opinions shift the focus  to how you can help someone you try

it excellent did you probably said it better  than me you said it better than me didn't you  

I'll tell you what that's amazing all right  unreasonable demands these demands are unre  

reasonable demands that are too  difficult unfair or impossible to

do my boss told me to finish 8 hours of work in  2 hours that's an unre that's an unreasonable

demand yeah that's an unreasonable  demand cuz his boss said to finish  

all this work it's like 8 hours worth  of work and to finish it in only 2  

hours that would be an unreasonable  demand all right my boss told me to  

finish eight hours of work in two hours  that's an unreasonable demand you say

it that that's kind of hard to say and  unreasonable because you got to get that  

an and unreasonable and unreasonable  demand [Music] it is an unreasonable

demand set boundaries now if  you set boundaries you create  

clear rules clear rules about what  you will or will not accept I will  

accept this I will not accept this  I am setting my boundaries drawing a

line if someone makes unreasonable demands  it's okay to set boundaries and say

no that's good advice huh if  someone makes unreasonable  

demands it's okay to set boundaries and say

no if someone makes unreasonable demands  it's okay to set boundaries and say

no okay excellent take time to use time  to do something without rushing take your  

time taking time to do things you love  reminds you that happiness doesn't depend  

on others approval that sentence is too long  to listen and repeat let me break it up for  

you I'll say it in two sections ready taking  time to do things you love reminds you that

happiness doesn't depend on others

approval taking time to do things you love reminds  you that happiness doesn't depend on others

approval happiness doesn't depend on others

approval that's right happiness does not  depend on others approval you can decide  

to be happy right now boom good work out keep  moving forward okay we got all that vocabulary  

set up so in the next lesson you will see  some of this vocabulary pop up and then  

also in the lesson after that in the next  two lessons all right I'll see you there