The 2nd Rule of Fluency - Advanced English Listening Practice - 20 - English Lesson at Native Speed

hi there I'm drew badger the

hi there I'm drew badger the world's number one english

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fluency guide is a pleasure to

fluency guide is a pleasure to welcome you to another advanced

welcome you to another advanced

welcome you to another advanced listening practice lesson

listening practice lesson

listening practice lesson as always I will be speaking a

as always I will be speaking a

as always I will be speaking a bit more quickly

bit more quickly

bit more quickly I'm a slow down at some point in

I'm a slow down at some point in

I'm a slow down at some point in this video like I usually do but

this video like I usually do but

this video like I usually do but in general i will be speaking

in general i will be speaking

in general i will be speaking much more quickly than I usually

much more quickly than I usually

much more quickly than I usually do in my previous lessons in

do in my previous lessons in

do in my previous lessons in another video series on the

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pretty good but you have trouble understanding faster english i

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understanding faster english i recommend you go and watch those

recommend you go and watch those

recommend you go and watch those other videos first

other videos first

other videos first this video is actually connected

this video is actually connected

this video is actually connected with episode 14 in this series

with episode 14 in this series

with episode 14 in this series talking about the first rule of

talking about the first rule of

talking about the first rule of fluency so this one will be

fluency so this one will be

fluency so this one will be talking about the second rule of

talking about the second rule of

talking about the second rule of fluency

fluency

fluency but if you again are not ready

but if you again are not ready

but if you again are not ready for this level of speed and i'm

for this level of speed and i'm

for this level of speed and i'm not even speaking very quickly

not even speaking very quickly

not even speaking very quickly and I'll get into that in just a

and I'll get into that in just a

and I'll get into that in just a second but if you're not ready

second but if you're not ready

second but if you're not ready for that again go back and watch

for that again go back and watch

for that again go back and watch those other videos but if you

those other videos but if you

those other videos but if you are

are

are let's begin the lesson so I had

let's begin the lesson so I had

let's begin the lesson so I had actually a great response from

actually a great response from

actually a great response from that first video or against the

that first video or against the

that first video or against the the 14th video in the series

the 14th video in the series

the 14th video in the series where i was talking about the

where i was talking about the

where i was talking about the first rule of fluency and a lot

first rule of fluency and a lot

first rule of fluency and a lot of people caught on so they

of people caught on so they

of people caught on so they caught on to the fact they

caught on to the fact they

caught on to the fact they understood or they grasp grasp

understood or they grasp grasp

understood or they grasp grasp something so they caught on to

something so they caught on to

something so they caught on to the fact that a lot of what I

the fact that a lot of what I

the fact that a lot of what I teach is applicable not only for

teach is applicable not only for

teach is applicable not only for english learning or you know

english learning or you know

english learning or you know spanish learning or whatever it

spanish learning or whatever it

spanish learning or whatever it is you're trying to do but for

is you're trying to do but for

is you're trying to do but for learning anything or for

learning anything or for

learning anything or for succeeding at anything in life

succeeding at anything in life

succeeding at anything in life because I'm so I'm so big on

because I'm so I'm so big on

because I'm so I'm so big on principles to be being on

principles to be being on

principles to be being on something means you're like a

something means you're like a

something means you're like a very proud supporter of that

very proud supporter of that

very proud supporter of that thing you really like that thing

thing you really like that thing

thing you really like that thing a lot some very big on the focus

a lot some very big on the focus

a lot some very big on the focus on principles because a lot of

on principles because a lot of

on principles because a lot of students get caught up in like

students get caught up in like

students get caught up in like where's the lesson tell me this

where's the lesson tell me this

where's the lesson tell me this vocabulary word tell me that

vocabulary word tell me that

vocabulary word tell me that vocabulary word and this is the

vocabulary word and this is the

vocabulary word and this is the same thing that happens in every

same thing that happens in every

same thing that happens in every industry and all kind of share a

industry and all kind of share a

industry and all kind of share a little secret with you for

little secret with you for

little secret with you for people that teach things or

people that teach things or

people that teach things or other people that provide

other people that provide

other people that provide information you know it could be

information you know it could be

information you know it could be people selling books or anything

people selling books or anything

people selling books or anything but you know most people most

but you know most people most

but you know most people most people that sell things whatever

people that sell things whatever

people that sell things whatever that thing is it could be a

that thing is it could be a

that thing is it could be a video game a book movie or other

video game a book movie or other

video game a book movie or other things like that but especially

things like that but especially

things like that but especially information because it takes you

information because it takes you

information because it takes you no longer to digest longer to

no longer to digest longer to

no longer to digest longer to consume and then this is really

consume and then this is really

consume and then this is really kind of something different from

kind of something different from

kind of something different from a CD or a movie I mean does take

a CD or a movie I mean does take

a CD or a movie I mean does take a little bit of time with movies

a little bit of time with movies

a little bit of time with movies as well but often you'll see

as well but often you'll see

as well but often you'll see especially with things where you

especially with things where you

especially with things where you have a couple of videos that you

have a couple of videos that you

have a couple of videos that you have to watch or a whole bunch

have to watch or a whole bunch

have to watch or a whole bunch of things like a book especially

of things like a book especially

of things like a book especially if you have to read most people

if you have to read most people

if you have to read most people will buy the book but then it

will buy the book but then it

will buy the book but then it will just sit on the shelf and

will just sit on the shelf and

will just sit on the shelf and most of the people there

most of the people there

most of the people there you know selling lessons are

you know selling lessons are

you know selling lessons are really disappointed about that

really disappointed about that

really disappointed about that myself included

myself included

myself included so you know I'll have lessons

so you know I'll have lessons

so you know I'll have lessons that I sell or whatever just

that I sell or whatever just

that I sell or whatever just like other people and make some

like other people and make some

like other people and make some people actually go through the

people actually go through the

people actually go through the course and they'll be like wow

course and they'll be like wow

course and they'll be like wow the program really work for me

the program really work for me

the program really work for me and other people will just like

and other people will just like

and other people will just like not actually use it either

not actually use it either

not actually use it either they'll buy the course and do

they'll buy the course and do

they'll buy the course and do nothing with it or not go

nothing with it or not go

nothing with it or not go through the whole thing for

through the whole thing for

through the whole thing for whatever reason as good as I can

whatever reason as good as I can

whatever reason as good as I can make the program and we're

make the program and we're

make the program and we're always trying to make it better

always trying to make it better

always trying to make it better honestly it doesn't really

honestly it doesn't really

honestly it doesn't really matter what the program is

matter what the program is

matter what the program is everyone that's you know selling

everyone that's you know selling

everyone that's you know selling information are trying to help

information are trying to help

information are trying to help people learn something every one

people learn something every one

people learn something every one that's doing this complaint in

that's doing this complaint in

that's doing this complaint in the same problem and a lot of

the same problem and a lot of

the same problem and a lot of this is like people want you

this is like people want you

this is like people want you know the quick fix they want

know the quick fix they want

know the quick fix they want that that magic pill that's

that that magic pill that's

that that magic pill that's going to deliver them whatever

going to deliver them whatever

going to deliver them whatever solution is they're looking for

solution is they're looking for

solution is they're looking for in the case of fluency it's like

in the case of fluency it's like

in the case of fluency it's like I let me just take the fluency

I let me just take the fluency

I let me just take the fluency pill you know i would love to

pill you know i would love to

pill you know i would love to create the fluency pill i think

create the fluency pill i think

create the fluency pill i think that would be awesome

that would be awesome

that would be awesome I would take that myself but

I would take that myself but

I would take that myself but until we have something like

until we have something like

until we have something like that we're going to have to

that we're going to have to

that we're going to have to learn the old-fashioned way

learn the old-fashioned way

learn the old-fashioned way which is studying you know the

which is studying you know the

which is studying you know the rules and principles as well as

rules and principles as well as

rules and principles as well as the other physical

the other physical

the other physical well I guess maybe physical in

well I guess maybe physical in

well I guess maybe physical in the case of you know learning a

the case of you know learning a

the case of you know learning a new skill so something like

new skill so something like

new skill so something like basketball or learning how to

basketball or learning how to

basketball or learning how to play an instrument something

play an instrument something

play an instrument something like that but you're going to

like that but you're going to

like that but you're going to have to do the legwork the

have to do the legwork the

have to do the legwork the actual grunt work the hard work

actual grunt work the hard work

actual grunt work the hard work of having to learn that

of having to learn that

of having to learn that particular thing but the

particular thing but the

particular thing but the interesting thing is that if you

interesting thing is that if you

interesting thing is that if you focus on the principles

focus on the principles

focus on the principles instead of you know focusing on

instead of you know focusing on

instead of you know focusing on the little like it's it's kind

the little like it's it's kind

the little like it's it's kind of the difference between

of the difference between

of the difference between focusing on the strategy versus

focusing on the strategy versus

focusing on the strategy versus focusing on the tactics of

focusing on the tactics of

focusing on the tactics of something so strategy is the

something so strategy is the

something so strategy is the bigger picture idea and this is

bigger picture idea and this is

bigger picture idea and this is something I talk about a lot on

something I talk about a lot on

something I talk about a lot on the program and on the videos

the program and on the videos

the program and on the videos that I make here for YouTube but

that I make here for YouTube but

that I make here for YouTube but a lot of people aren't exactly

a lot of people aren't exactly

a lot of people aren't exactly interested in that they want

interested in that they want

interested in that they want like give me the top five

like give me the top five

like give me the top five you know phrases to learn for

you know phrases to learn for

you know phrases to learn for whatever this thing give me the

whatever this thing give me the

whatever this thing give me the top eight or the top 10 or

top eight or the top 10 or

top eight or the top 10 or something like this and you know

something like this and you know

something like this and you know as humans were attracted to this

as humans were attracted to this

as humans were attracted to this kind of information because it

kind of information because it

kind of information because it makes you know what kind of

makes you know what kind of

makes you know what kind of confusing world simple

confusing world simple

confusing world simple so it makes sense but if you can

so it makes sense but if you can

so it makes sense but if you can be that kind of person one of

be that kind of person one of

be that kind of person one of the few so hopefully I may not

the few so hopefully I may not

the few so hopefully I may not get through to everyone who's

get through to everyone who's

get through to everyone who's watching this video but I'm

watching this video but I'm

watching this video but I'm speaking to you right now don't

speaking to you right now don't

speaking to you right now don't worry about anybody else i'm

worry about anybody else i'm

worry about anybody else i'm talking to you right now

talking to you right now

talking to you right now and what I'd like you to do is

and what I'd like you to do is

and what I'd like you to do is actually listened very carefully

actually listened very carefully

actually listened very carefully to what I'm about to say because

to what I'm about to say because

to what I'm about to say because the second rule of fluency is

the second rule of fluency is

the second rule of fluency is incredibly important just to

incredibly important just to

incredibly important just to give a quick recap the video

give a quick recap the video

give a quick recap the video where i was talking about in

where i was talking about in

where i was talking about in episode 14 of this very video

episode 14 of this very video

episode 14 of this very video series which you can find on

series which you can find on

series which you can find on youtube this is probably in the

youtube this is probably in the

youtube this is probably in the same playlist if you're watching

same playlist if you're watching

same playlist if you're watching this on a playlist right now if

this on a playlist right now if

this on a playlist right now if this is your own channel put

this is your own channel put

this is your own channel put this video in a playlist you

this video in a playlist you

this video in a playlist you have to because it's it's really

have to because it's it's really

have to because it's it's really going to be an important video

going to be an important video

going to be an important video anyway so that video I'm talking

anyway so that video I'm talking

anyway so that video I'm talking about the first rule of fluency

about the first rule of fluency

about the first rule of fluency and that is how you think

and that is how you think

and that is how you think determines the results you get

determines the results you get

determines the results you get so I'm like let's say just very

so I'm like let's say just very

so I'm like let's say just very i guess a very average ordinary

i guess a very average ordinary

i guess a very average ordinary example would be like I go

example would be like I go

example would be like I go outside and it starts raining so

outside and it starts raining so

outside and it starts raining so a you know something happens to

a you know something happens to

a you know something happens to me and then you know I have to

me and then you know I have to

me and then you know I have to decide how i'm going to react to

decide how i'm going to react to

decide how i'm going to react to that thing

that thing

that thing now maybe a kind of angry person

now maybe a kind of angry person

now maybe a kind of angry person in general would have been no

in general would have been no

in general would have been no rainfall and then he would get

rainfall and then he would get

rainfall and then he would get angry about that but you can

angry about that but you can

angry about that but you can also choose to behave in a

also choose to behave in a

also choose to behave in a different way and i gave the

different way and i gave the

different way and i gave the example of being able to pick up

example of being able to pick up

example of being able to pick up a pen so I was holding a pen and

a pen so I was holding a pen and

a pen so I was holding a pen and showing that if i can move this

showing that if i can move this

showing that if i can move this pen with my mind

pen with my mind

pen with my mind imagine what else I can do with

imagine what else I can do with

imagine what else I can do with my mind because there's really

my mind because there's really

my mind because there's really no limitation it all depends on

no limitation it all depends on

no limitation it all depends on how you're thinking about

how you're thinking about

how you're thinking about something and from there if you

something and from there if you

something and from there if you can develop that idea if you can

can develop that idea if you can

can develop that idea if you can master that first idea then

master that first idea then

master that first idea then everything else will fall into

everything else will fall into

everything else will fall into place

place

place now something else that's really

now something else that's really

now something else that's really really important and tied to

really important and tied to

really important and tied to that idea if you understand that

that idea if you understand that

that idea if you understand that idea first and again I recommend

idea first and again I recommend

idea first and again I recommend you go back and watch that video

you go back and watch that video

you go back and watch that video if you haven't watched it

if you haven't watched it

if you haven't watched it already

already

already again that's episode 14 i'll put

again that's episode 14 i'll put

again that's episode 14 i'll put a link in the description for

a link in the description for

a link in the description for that but do go back and watch

that but do go back and watch

that but do go back and watch that video after you've seen

that video after you've seen

that video after you've seen this one if you have not seen

this one if you have not seen

this one if you have not seen that one already

that one already

that one already so the second rule of fluency

so the second rule of fluency

so the second rule of fluency again this is really important

again this is really important

again this is really important really really important and this

really really important and this

really really important and this is something that again it's

is something that again it's

is something that again it's translatable or its applicable

translatable or its applicable

translatable or its applicable to things outside of fluency so

to things outside of fluency so

to things outside of fluency so no matter what you're trying to

no matter what you're trying to

no matter what you're trying to do if you can follow this rule

do if you can follow this rule

do if you can follow this rule then you were like much more

then you were like much more

then you were like much more likely to gain success or to

likely to gain success or to

likely to gain success or to achieve success to reach your

achieve success to reach your

achieve success to reach your goals whatever they happen to be

goals whatever they happen to be

goals whatever they happen to be so whether it's fluency or

so whether it's fluency or

so whether it's fluency or beyond or anything again it

beyond or anything again it

beyond or anything again it doesn't matter

doesn't matter

doesn't matter and we're all thinking about the

and we're all thinking about the

and we're all thinking about the principles of success and how we

principles of success and how we

principles of success and how we apply those in a different areas

apply those in a different areas

apply those in a different areas so I applied them as far as

so I applied them as far as

so I applied them as far as fluency is concerned but other

fluency is concerned but other

fluency is concerned but other people maybe they're teaching

people maybe they're teaching

people maybe they're teaching how to be a good writer how to

how to be a good writer how to

how to be a good writer how to be a good listener or you know

be a good listener or you know

be a good listener or you know whatever the skill happens to be

whatever the skill happens to be

whatever the skill happens to be but this principle here

but this principle here

but this principle here once you've figured out that I

once you've figured out that I

once you've figured out that I decide how i can how I live or

decide how i can how I live or

decide how i can how I live or how I control my thoughts or

how I control my thoughts or

how I control my thoughts or whatever happens to me I i get

whatever happens to me I i get

whatever happens to me I i get to decide you know what I do for

to decide you know what I do for

to decide you know what I do for that because let's say you know

that because let's say you know

that because let's say you know it gets that you know the kind

it gets that you know the kind

it gets that you know the kind of basic laws of physics if

of basic laws of physics if

of basic laws of physics if something is pushing you know an

something is pushing you know an

something is pushing you know an object this way it has to move

object this way it has to move

object this way it has to move that way

that way

that way so this is a very you know

so this is a very you know

so this is a very you know fundamental law of physics and

fundamental law of physics and

fundamental law of physics and object will be moving this way

object will be moving this way

object will be moving this way if it's acted upon by another

if it's acted upon by another

if it's acted upon by another object but in the human mind it

object but in the human mind it

object but in the human mind it doesn't have to work like that

doesn't have to work like that

doesn't have to work like that you could be pushed this way and

you could be pushed this way and

you could be pushed this way and you could get out of the way you

you could get out of the way you

you could get out of the way you can push back you could do

can push back you could do

can push back you could do something else

something else

something else there are lots of different

there are lots of different

there are lots of different things so again I'm just kind of

things so again I'm just kind of

things so again I'm just kind of going over and over about this

going over and over about this

going over and over about this because it's such an

because it's such an

because it's such an understanding of our excuse me

understanding of our excuse me

understanding of our excuse me such an important thing to

such an important thing to

such an important thing to understand and that's why I want

understand and that's why I want

understand and that's why I want you to review it very carefully

you to review it very carefully

you to review it very carefully so the first rule of fluency is

so the first rule of fluency is

so the first rule of fluency is that you can you control your

that you can you control your

that you can you control your thoughts you decide how you feel

thoughts you decide how you feel

thoughts you decide how you feel and how you react and that's

and how you react and that's

and how you react and that's what's going to give you success

what's going to give you success

what's going to give you success no matter what happens to you

no matter what happens to you

no matter what happens to you can always you know I think

can always you know I think

can always you know I think about it in a different way or

about it in a different way or

about it in a different way or choose to react in a different

choose to react in a different

choose to react in a different way something like that so go

way something like that so go

way something like that so go back and watch that video but

back and watch that video but

back and watch that video but after you've done that the

after you've done that the

after you've done that the second rule of fluency listen

second rule of fluency listen

second rule of fluency listen very carefully to this because

very carefully to this because

very carefully to this because it's going to sound a little bit

it's going to sound a little bit

it's going to sound a little bit weird if you're not kind of used

weird if you're not kind of used

weird if you're not kind of used to the way I talk or the way I

to the way I talk or the way I

to the way I talk or the way I think so the second rule of

think so the second rule of

think so the second rule of fluency as well as the secret to

fluency as well as the secret to

fluency as well as the secret to you know being able to succeed

you know being able to succeed

you know being able to succeed at whatever it is you want to do

at whatever it is you want to do

at whatever it is you want to do in life is to stumble forward

in life is to stumble forward

in life is to stumble forward you have to stumble forward if

you have to stumble forward if

you have to stumble forward if you want to succeed you have to

you want to succeed you have to

you want to succeed you have to stumble forward and I don't

stumble forward and I don't

stumble forward and I don't really know you know people kind

really know you know people kind

really know you know people kind of present this idea in

of present this idea in

of present this idea in different ways i don't really

different ways i don't really

different ways i don't really know of anybody that's like you

know of anybody that's like you

know of anybody that's like you know hey like a for stumbling

know hey like a for stumbling

know hey like a for stumbling forward something like this but

forward something like this but

forward something like this but if you can think about the idea

if you can think about the idea

if you can think about the idea of forward motion

of forward motion

of forward motion so the idea of moving towards

so the idea of moving towards

so the idea of moving towards whatever your goal is the idea

whatever your goal is the idea

whatever your goal is the idea of forward motion but you

of forward motion but you

of forward motion but you combine this with the idea of

combine this with the idea of

combine this with the idea of not exactly knowing how to do it

not exactly knowing how to do it

not exactly knowing how to do it so instead of walking forward

so instead of walking forward

so instead of walking forward you're stumbling forward as an

you're stumbling forward as an

you're stumbling forward as an example let's say I'm walking

example let's say I'm walking

example let's say I'm walking like this and I I like tripped

like this and I I like tripped

like this and I I like tripped over a rock I'm stumbling over a

over a rock I'm stumbling over a

over a rock I'm stumbling over a rock it just means to trip and

rock it just means to trip and

rock it just means to trip and like maybe I don't fall

like maybe I don't fall

like maybe I don't fall completely on my face but I'm

completely on my face but I'm

completely on my face but I'm kind of like you know stumbling

kind of like you know stumbling

kind of like you know stumbling a little bit

a little bit

a little bit what I want you to do and this

what I want you to do and this

what I want you to do and this is the exact same thing I do in

is the exact same thing I do in

is the exact same thing I do in my own life is to stumble

my own life is to stumble

my own life is to stumble forward like there's just like

forward like there's just like

forward like there's just like rock after rock after rock in

rock after rock after rock in

rock after rock after rock in front of you and you keep going

front of you and you keep going

front of you and you keep going you're not trying to like run

you're not trying to like run

you're not trying to like run forward you're stumbling forward

forward you're stumbling forward

forward you're stumbling forward stumbling forward

stumbling forward

stumbling forward so you're stumbling over this

so you're stumbling over this

so you're stumbling over this rock and you kind of fall over

rock and you kind of fall over

rock and you kind of fall over that rock - and like you're not

that rock - and like you're not

that rock - and like you're not exactly doing it perfectly but

exactly doing it perfectly but

exactly doing it perfectly but you're making great progress and

you're making great progress and

you're making great progress and you know you're making great

you know you're making great

you know you're making great progress because things are

progress because things are

progress because things are happening to you and that's

happening to you and that's

happening to you and that's another kind of insight but i'll

another kind of insight but i'll

another kind of insight but i'll talk about in this video but the

talk about in this video but the

talk about in this video but the idea of stumbling forward means

idea of stumbling forward means

idea of stumbling forward means that even if you don't know

that even if you don't know

that even if you don't know exactly where you want to go

exactly where you want to go

exactly where you want to go you kind of you open up your

you kind of you open up your

you kind of you open up your mind to letting kind of

mind to letting kind of

mind to letting kind of opportunities happen to you as

opportunities happen to you as

opportunities happen to you as they are designed to happen to

they are designed to happen to

they are designed to happen to you based on how you think so as

you based on how you think so as

you based on how you think so as an example like I'll just you

an example like I'll just you

an example like I'll just you know talk very candidly and

know talk very candidly and

know talk very candidly and openly about my own business and

openly about my own business and

openly about my own business and how its developed over the years

how its developed over the years

how its developed over the years so I've had this idea for a

so I've had this idea for a

so I've had this idea for a really long time about how i can

really long time about how i can

really long time about how i can actually help the entire world

actually help the entire world

actually help the entire world learn the English language from

learn the English language from

learn the English language from like the absolute zero to you

like the absolute zero to you

like the absolute zero to you know being able to understand

know being able to understand

know being able to understand highly technical things and

highly technical things and

highly technical things and being able to understand other

being able to understand other

being able to understand other things like business or science

things like business or science

things like business or science or whatever but in a really easy

or whatever but in a really easy

or whatever but in a really easy to understand wait

to understand wait

to understand wait and you know as I've had these

and you know as I've had these

and you know as I've had these ideas and I've started to build

ideas and I've started to build

ideas and I've started to build different pieces of this

different pieces of this

different pieces of this structure which will become a

structure which will become a

structure which will become a complete thing and that's what

complete thing and that's what

complete thing and that's what english anyone will be and

english anyone will be and

english anyone will be and that's why I created the name of

that's why I created the name of

that's why I created the name of English anyone because anybody

English anyone because anybody

English anyone because anybody can learn the language with the

can learn the language with the

can learn the language with the system i am building

system i am building

system i am building so when the whole thing is built

so when the whole thing is built

so when the whole thing is built you know it will be like a

you know it will be like a

you know it will be like a massive structure that you could

massive structure that you could

massive structure that you could get in and pretty much any point

get in and pretty much any point

get in and pretty much any point and actually start getting fluid

and actually start getting fluid

and actually start getting fluid it wouldn't really matter where

it wouldn't really matter where

it wouldn't really matter where you started

you started

you started so when thinking about that I

so when thinking about that I

so when thinking about that I don't really have you know like

don't really have you know like

don't really have you know like real business skills I didn't

real business skills I didn't

real business skills I didn't you know have like a college

you know have like a college

you know have like a college degree in business or you know

degree in business or you know

degree in business or you know masters or something like that

masters or something like that

masters or something like that any particular business degree

any particular business degree

any particular business degree I just had a desire to do that

I just had a desire to do that

I just had a desire to do that thing and i started stumbling

thing and i started stumbling

thing and i started stumbling forward figuring out how that

forward figuring out how that

forward figuring out how that would happen so I'm not walking

would happen so I'm not walking

would happen so I'm not walking forward walking forward means

forward walking forward means

forward walking forward means you're trying to be careful and

you're trying to be careful and

you're trying to be careful and you're trying to decide exactly

you're trying to decide exactly

you're trying to decide exactly how you should move because you

how you should move because you

how you should move because you think you know exactly how

think you know exactly how

think you know exactly how something should happen now

something should happen now

something should happen now often in life

often in life

often in life you've probably experienced this

you've probably experienced this

you've probably experienced this a number of times when you do

a number of times when you do

a number of times when you do something and then you notice

something and then you notice

something and then you notice like g it didn't happen the way

like g it didn't happen the way

like g it didn't happen the way I planned it would happen so

I planned it would happen so

I planned it would happen so maybe you were thinking

maybe you were thinking

maybe you were thinking something was going to happen in

something was going to happen in

something was going to happen in a certain way but he didn't

a certain way but he didn't

a certain way but he didn't actually happen that

actually happen that

actually happen that it now in my case since I've

it now in my case since I've

it now in my case since I've been stumbling forward again I'm

been stumbling forward again I'm

been stumbling forward again I'm just trying to make progress

just trying to make progress

just trying to make progress without exactly knowing like

without exactly knowing like

without exactly knowing like number one where I should go but

number one where I should go but

number one where I should go but I'm not worried about doing it

I'm not worried about doing it

I'm not worried about doing it perfectly because i know you

perfectly because i know you

perfectly because i know you know i can always come back and

know i can always come back and

know i can always come back and failures or something that you

failures or something that you

failures or something that you know basically things that are

know basically things that are

know basically things that are temporary

temporary

temporary so and if you hear my daughter

so and if you hear my daughter

so and if you hear my daughter that's my daughter screaming in

that's my daughter screaming in

that's my daughter screaming in the next room but hopefully

the next room but hopefully

the next room but hopefully she'll let me stumble forward

she'll let me stumble forward

she'll let me stumble forward through this video anyway to get

through this video anyway to get

through this video anyway to get back to the point

back to the point

back to the point so if we combine if we combine

so if we combine if we combine

so if we combine if we combine the ideas of not knowing where

the ideas of not knowing where

the ideas of not knowing where you're going to go

you're going to go

you're going to go and even though you have a

and even though you have a

and even though you have a specific if you have a specific

specific if you have a specific

specific if you have a specific outcome that you'd like to

outcome that you'd like to

outcome that you'd like to achieve and you don't know

achieve and you don't know

achieve and you don't know exactly how are you going to get

exactly how are you going to get

exactly how are you going to get there all you can do is really

there all you can do is really

there all you can do is really start stumbling forward you

start stumbling forward you

start stumbling forward you start making progress you start

start making progress you start

start making progress you start working towards something

working towards something

working towards something telling other people about it

telling other people about it

telling other people about it and every at every point in my

and every at every point in my

and every at every point in my business we're like I've hate

business we're like I've hate

business we're like I've hate like a wall somewhere and I've

like a wall somewhere and I've

like a wall somewhere and I've needed to grow

needed to grow

needed to grow I don't really stop and worry

I don't really stop and worry

I don't really stop and worry about it too much I just I just

about it too much I just I just

about it too much I just I just keep kind of pushing forward and

keep kind of pushing forward and

keep kind of pushing forward and know that like because my

know that like because my

know that like because my desires troll is so strong to

desires troll is so strong to

desires troll is so strong to build this like really powerful

build this like really powerful

build this like really powerful system that anybody can use to

system that anybody can use to

system that anybody can use to get fluent the people that will

get fluent the people that will

get fluent the people that will come into my life like my

come into my life like my

come into my life like my daughter

daughter

daughter the people that will come into

the people that will come into

the people that will come into my life will support that in a

my life will support that in a

my life will support that in a particular way which I can't

particular way which I can't

particular way which I can't really decide how that's going

really decide how that's going

really decide how that's going to happen beforehand so I'm i

to happen beforehand so I'm i

to happen beforehand so I'm i think i'm a smart person but i

think i'm a smart person but i

think i'm a smart person but i know i'm not smart enough to

know i'm not smart enough to

know i'm not smart enough to understand how all of these

understand how all of these

understand how all of these things are going to happen now I

things are going to happen now I

things are going to happen now I don't know this is like being

don't know this is like being

don't know this is like being psychic or whatever but

psychic or whatever but

psychic or whatever but basically I'm just open to the

basically I'm just open to the

basically I'm just open to the possibility of i have a

possibility of i have a

possibility of i have a particular place I want to get

particular place I want to get

particular place I want to get to but I don't know exactly how

to but I don't know exactly how

to but I don't know exactly how I'm going to get there so I'm

I'm going to get there so I'm

I'm going to get there so I'm always keeping my eyes and ears

always keeping my eyes and ears

always keeping my eyes and ears open for opportunities and

open for opportunities and

open for opportunities and thinking like oh like this thing

thinking like oh like this thing

thinking like oh like this thing happens to my life in a certain

happens to my life in a certain

happens to my life in a certain time in a certain way and i can

time in a certain way and i can

time in a certain way and i can tell all this is happening

tell all this is happening

tell all this is happening because i'm going in the right

because i'm going in the right

because i'm going in the right direction

direction

direction so you've got kind of signposts

so you've got kind of signposts

so you've got kind of signposts all over the place if you're

all over the place if you're

all over the place if you're continuing to stumble for but

continuing to stumble for but

continuing to stumble for but you only see them if you're

you only see them if you're

you only see them if you're stumbling forward if you're

stumbling forward if you're

stumbling forward if you're walking forward

walking forward

walking forward you're really making slow

you're really making slow

you're really making slow progress and you don't know if

progress and you don't know if

progress and you don't know if you're actually trying to do

you're actually trying to do

you're actually trying to do something you know working

something you know working

something you know working towards your goal or not

towards your goal or not

towards your goal or not so it's really important that

so it's really important that

so it's really important that you start stumbling forward and

you start stumbling forward and

you start stumbling forward and start making decisions based on

start making decisions based on

start making decisions based on you know what youre your primary

you know what youre your primary

you know what youre your primary goal is and if you don't have a

goal is and if you don't have a

goal is and if you don't have a primary goal that you shouldn't

primary goal that you shouldn't

primary goal that you shouldn't be stumbling at all like they're

be stumbling at all like they're

be stumbling at all like they're you shouldn't be making any

you shouldn't be making any

you shouldn't be making any progress until you really decide

progress until you really decide

progress until you really decide what it is you want to do now it

what it is you want to do now it

what it is you want to do now it doesn't matter what that thing

doesn't matter what that thing

doesn't matter what that thing is and you could even have a

is and you could even have a

is and you could even have a small goal or you know whatever

small goal or you know whatever

small goal or you know whatever that thing is

that thing is

that thing is but you should always be you

but you should always be you

but you should always be you know combining these two ideas

know combining these two ideas

know combining these two ideas like and that's what the the

like and that's what the the

like and that's what the the second rule of fluency is so you

second rule of fluency is so you

second rule of fluency is so you have to have the not only the

have to have the not only the

have to have the not only the particular place you want to go

particular place you want to go

particular place you want to go and in the case of affluent

and in the case of affluent

and in the case of affluent learner or somebody that is

learner or somebody that is

learner or somebody that is learning english language or

learning english language or

learning english language or whatever trying to get fluent

whatever trying to get fluent

whatever trying to get fluent you would want to be focusing on

you would want to be focusing on

you would want to be focusing on a specific reason why you're

a specific reason why you're

a specific reason why you're learning the language to make

learning the language to make

learning the language to make the the poll of that goal what I

the the poll of that goal what I

the the poll of that goal what I call a magnetic goal and I've

call a magnetic goal and I've

call a magnetic goal and I've actually talked about this i

actually talked about this i

actually talked about this i think in the the podcast series

think in the the podcast series

think in the the podcast series excuse me but I talked about

excuse me but I talked about

excuse me but I talked about magnetic goals before and

magnetic goals before and

magnetic goals before and hopefully my daughter is like

hopefully my daughter is like

hopefully my daughter is like magnetically pulling me into the

magnetically pulling me into the

magnetically pulling me into the next room I'm gonna have to go

next room I'm gonna have to go

next room I'm gonna have to go attend to her in a moment but if

attend to her in a moment but if

attend to her in a moment but if you think about these ideas

you think about these ideas

you think about these ideas the the strength of the goal

the the strength of the goal

the the strength of the goal that you have the stronger you

that you have the stronger you

that you have the stronger you can make that and this is why I

can make that and this is why I

can make that and this is why I talk to students about like you

talk to students about like you

talk to students about like you know tell me a whole story about

know tell me a whole story about

know tell me a whole story about what fluency means to you like

what fluency means to you like

what fluency means to you like you can even do that in the

you can even do that in the

you can even do that in the comments below don't just say i

comments below don't just say i

comments below don't just say i want to get fluent you want to

want to get fluent you want to

want to get fluent you want to get fluid for what do you want

get fluid for what do you want

get fluid for what do you want to do with that because if you

to do with that because if you

to do with that because if you say I want to get fluid that's

say I want to get fluid that's

say I want to get fluid that's the same thing as saying I want

the same thing as saying I want

the same thing as saying I want to get rich and that's just not

to get rich and that's just not

to get rich and that's just not a very powerful thing that the

a very powerful thing that the

a very powerful thing that the mind can get excited about

mind can get excited about

mind can get excited about now your mind is a very powerful

now your mind is a very powerful

now your mind is a very powerful thing and we saw that in the

thing and we saw that in the

thing and we saw that in the first or against the previous

first or against the previous

first or against the previous lesson where we were talking

lesson where we were talking

lesson where we were talking about the first rule fluency so

about the first rule fluency so

about the first rule fluency so if the mind is so powerful you

if the mind is so powerful you

if the mind is so powerful you have to give it something to

have to give it something to

have to give it something to attach itself to and that's that

attach itself to and that's that

attach itself to and that's that ultimate goal but then the

ultimate goal but then the

ultimate goal but then the second part of that is you have

second part of that is you have

second part of that is you have to start stumbling forward

to start stumbling forward

to start stumbling forward making progress we're even if

making progress we're even if

making progress we're even if you don't know exactly how

you don't know exactly how

you don't know exactly how something is going to happen is

something is going to happen is

something is going to happen is the goal that pulls you there

the goal that pulls you there

the goal that pulls you there and sends you in the right

and sends you in the right

and sends you in the right direction

direction

direction so you've got to have a great

so you've got to have a great

so you've got to have a great goal and then trust yourself -

goal and then trust yourself -

goal and then trust yourself - - you know to be pulled to that

- you know to be pulled to that

- you know to be pulled to that goal because your mind wants to

goal because your mind wants to

goal because your mind wants to help you it really does your

help you it really does your

help you it really does your mind wants to set you up for

mind wants to set you up for

mind wants to set you up for success and all you have to do

success and all you have to do

success and all you have to do is give it a direction

is give it a direction

is give it a direction so once you do that you start

so once you do that you start

so once you do that you start moving stumbling forward in my

moving stumbling forward in my

moving stumbling forward in my case like as soon as I've

case like as soon as I've

case like as soon as I've decided I want to do this like I

decided I want to do this like I

decided I want to do this like I found a person who's going to

found a person who's going to

found a person who's going to help us like build our appt i

help us like build our appt i

help us like build our appt i found a guy who is able to do

found a guy who is able to do

found a guy who is able to do voiceover recording i found a

voiceover recording i found a

voiceover recording i found a guy who was able to help with

guy who was able to help with

guy who was able to help with writing lessons and editing

writing lessons and editing

writing lessons and editing thing

thing

thing I found another person who is

I found another person who is

I found another person who is able to do is like a perfect

able to do is like a perfect

able to do is like a perfect example like a couple of days

example like a couple of days

example like a couple of days ago I was talking with a friend

ago I was talking with a friend

ago I was talking with a friend of mine i was like pan

of mine i was like pan

of mine i was like pan I really want like a person is

I really want like a person is

I really want like a person is great with statistics and you

great with statistics and you

great with statistics and you know some other things like that

know some other things like that

know some other things like that in a day later

in a day later

in a day later a day later i got a facebook

a day later i got a facebook

a day later i got a facebook email from a friend of mine

email from a friend of mine

email from a friend of mine that's like hey I know somebody

that's like hey I know somebody

that's like hey I know somebody that's like you know looking for

that's like you know looking for

that's like you know looking for like exactly that kind of work

like exactly that kind of work

like exactly that kind of work something like that so again

something like that so again

something like that so again it's not about like you would be

it's not about like you would be

it's not about like you would be if you could even call it like a

if you could even call it like a

if you could even call it like a synchronicity and this just

synchronicity and this just

synchronicity and this just means when you know things are

means when you know things are

means when you know things are synced for you you know let's

synced for you you know let's

synced for you you know let's say you buy a new red car and

say you buy a new red car and

say you buy a new red car and you start noticing new red cars

you start noticing new red cars

you start noticing new red cars all over the place these things

all over the place these things

all over the place these things were already there all the time

were already there all the time

were already there all the time but you just didn't notice them

but you just didn't notice them

but you just didn't notice them until you started opening your

until you started opening your

until you started opening your mind to that thing and so that's

mind to that thing and so that's

mind to that thing and so that's what these these two ideas the

what these these two ideas the

what these these two ideas the first rule of fluency which is

first rule of fluency which is

first rule of fluency which is having a particular goal in

having a particular goal in

having a particular goal in realizing that the mind is very

realizing that the mind is very

realizing that the mind is very powerful but you won't be able

powerful but you won't be able

powerful but you won't be able to connect to that thing until

to connect to that thing until

to connect to that thing until you start stumbling forward so

you start stumbling forward so

you start stumbling forward so the second rule of fluency is to

the second rule of fluency is to

the second rule of fluency is to start stumbling forward and what

start stumbling forward and what

start stumbling forward and what I'd like you to help you with

I'd like you to help you with

I'd like you to help you with that to help guide your mind and

that to help guide your mind and

that to help guide your mind and to you know help me with more

to you know help me with more

to you know help me with more things if I can create better

things if I can create better

things if I can create better lessons to help you achieve that

lessons to help you achieve that

lessons to help you achieve that goal is in the comments in this

goal is in the comments in this

goal is in the comments in this video I'd like you to be like

video I'd like you to be like

video I'd like you to be like very descriptive actually tell

very descriptive actually tell

very descriptive actually tell me why you're trying to get

me why you're trying to get

me why you're trying to get fluent what do you want to get

fluent what do you want to get

fluent what do you want to get with it all the kinds of things

with it all the kinds of things

with it all the kinds of things like actually imagine your daily

like actually imagine your daily

like actually imagine your daily life with fluency what will you

life with fluency what will you

life with fluency what will you be doing what's the whole point

be doing what's the whole point

be doing what's the whole point of your learning I mean for my

of your learning I mean for my

of your learning I mean for my case I wanted to start speaking

case I wanted to start speaking

case I wanted to start speaking Japanese fluently so i could

Japanese fluently so i could

Japanese fluently so i could interact in the community i

interact in the community i

interact in the community i could build gardens and actually

could build gardens and actually

could build gardens and actually learn how to do things in it you

learn how to do things in it you

learn how to do things in it you know what a deeper way in the

know what a deeper way in the

know what a deeper way in the community and so if you don't

community and so if you don't

community and so if you don't have something like that again

have something like that again

have something like that again it's going to be more difficult

it's going to be more difficult

it's going to be more difficult without a specific goal to get

without a specific goal to get

without a specific goal to get yourself to that point so the

yourself to that point so the

yourself to that point so the second rule of fluency is you

second rule of fluency is you

second rule of fluency is you have to stumble forward and this

have to stumble forward and this

have to stumble forward and this means like you know you could

means like you know you could

means like you know you could potentially make a mistake you

potentially make a mistake you

potentially make a mistake you could do something but your mind

could do something but your mind

could do something but your mind is just so focused on pulling

is just so focused on pulling

is just so focused on pulling yourself to this goal that who

yourself to this goal that who

yourself to this goal that who cares about like an individual

cares about like an individual

cares about like an individual mistake or whatever I make

mistake or whatever I make

mistake or whatever I make mistakes all the time and see

mistakes all the time and see

mistakes all the time and see like these videos I make I got

like these videos I make I got

like these videos I make I got like my daughter in the

like my daughter in the

like my daughter in the background complaining about

background complaining about

background complaining about stuff i mean like my lighting

stuff i mean like my lighting

stuff i mean like my lighting system is you know I got a new

system is you know I got a new

system is you know I got a new lighting system it's like pretty

lighting system it's like pretty

lighting system it's like pretty cool but I don't really know how

cool but I don't really know how

cool but I don't really know how it works properly but you think

it works properly but you think

it works properly but you think that's stopping me from giving

that's stopping me from giving

that's stopping me from giving it a try

it a try

it a try hell no so I want you to be

hell no so I want you to be

hell no so I want you to be thinking in the exact same way

thinking in the exact same way

thinking in the exact same way follow both the first rule of

follow both the first rule of

follow both the first rule of fluency and the second rule

fluency and the second rule

fluency and the second rule fluency and the more you can do

fluency and the more you can do

fluency and the more you can do these things again having a goal

these things again having a goal

these things again having a goal and realizing that you have a

and realizing that you have a

and realizing that you have a mind that's powerful enough to

mind that's powerful enough to

mind that's powerful enough to get you there if that goal is

get you there if that goal is

get you there if that goal is strong enough and again you have

strong enough and again you have

strong enough and again you have to be very specific about what

to be very specific about what

to be very specific about what you want but then allowing

you want but then allowing

you want but then allowing yourself to follow that thing by

yourself to follow that thing by

yourself to follow that thing by stumbling forward so you don't

stumbling forward so you don't

stumbling forward so you don't have to run don't be crazy and

have to run don't be crazy and

have to run don't be crazy and you don't have to walk either

you don't have to walk either

you don't have to walk either it's not really going to get you

it's not really going to get you

it's not really going to get you there but you have to stumble

there but you have to stumble

there but you have to stumble forward it's kind of like you're

forward it's kind of like you're

forward it's kind of like you're moving forward in an almost dark

moving forward in an almost dark

moving forward in an almost dark room where you can really see

room where you can really see

room where you can really see what's happening but it's not

what's happening but it's not

what's happening but it's not scaring you from moving forward

scaring you from moving forward

scaring you from moving forward well think about all these

well think about all these

well think about all these things are both of these two

things are both of these two

things are both of these two things and i really look forward

things and i really look forward

things and i really look forward to reading what you say in the

to reading what you say in the

to reading what you say in the comments you know don't say i

comments you know don't say i

comments you know don't say i want to get full and actually

want to get full and actually

want to get full and actually take the time right at least

take the time right at least

take the time right at least like two or three paragraphs of

like two or three paragraphs of

like two or three paragraphs of something give me a long and

something give me a long and

something give me a long and detailed comment and make this

detailed comment and make this

detailed comment and make this the day that you really decide

the day that you really decide

the day that you really decide what you want whatever that

what you want whatever that

what you want whatever that happens to be

happens to be

happens to be and again think about this they

and again think about this they

and again think about this they are you agrees with me always

are you agrees with me always

are you agrees with me always like yeah like yeah you know so

like yeah like yeah you know so

like yeah like yeah you know so she's gonna have her goals and

she's gonna have her goals and

she's gonna have her goals and i'm going to be on her about

i'm going to be on her about

i'm going to be on her about that as well so whatever it is

that as well so whatever it is

that as well so whatever it is she wants to do hey figure out

she wants to do hey figure out

she wants to do hey figure out what that is and go do it but

what that is and go do it but

what that is and go do it but don't let anything stop you from

don't let anything stop you from

don't let anything stop you from doing that thing the only thing

doing that thing the only thing

doing that thing the only thing you have to decide is what you

you have to decide is what you

you have to decide is what you want

want

want well that's it for this lesson I

well that's it for this lesson I

well that's it for this lesson I hope you have enjoyed learning

hope you have enjoyed learning

hope you have enjoyed learning about the second and again kind

about the second and again kind

about the second and again kind of a refresher for the first

of a refresher for the first

of a refresher for the first rule of fluency go back and

rule of fluency go back and

rule of fluency go back and watch that again i believe it is

watch that again i believe it is

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