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you're ready let's begin in the previous video in this

in the previous video in this

in the previous video in this series i was talking about

series i was talking about

series i was talking about listening to your heart

listening to your heart

listening to your heart that kind of thing and this

that kind of thing and this

that kind of thing and this video i wanted to kind of

video i wanted to kind of

video i wanted to kind of continue talking about that but

continue talking about that but

continue talking about that but in a slightly different way and

in a slightly different way and

in a slightly different way and this is more talking about i

this is more talking about i

this is more talking about i guess like kind of as you get

guess like kind of as you get

guess like kind of as you get older or as you think more about

older or as you think more about

older or as you think more about your life and what you're doing

your life and what you're doing

your life and what you're doing you tend to try different things

you tend to try different things

you tend to try different things and that's why i was talking

and that's why i was talking

and that's why i was talking about in that previous video

about in that previous video

about in that previous video about listening to your your

about listening to your your

about listening to your your heart or that little voice in

heart or that little voice in

heart or that little voice in the back of your head that's

the back of your head that's

the back of your head that's saying hey you should you should

saying hey you should you should

saying hey you should you should try doing that thing even if you

try doing that thing even if you

try doing that thing even if you feel nervous about it or you're

feel nervous about it or you're

feel nervous about it or you're scared or maybe you don't know

scared or maybe you don't know

scared or maybe you don't know how it will work out like if you

how it will work out like if you

how it will work out like if you get that feeling

get that feeling

get that feeling you should follow that because i

you should follow that because i

you should follow that because i guarantee you like when you

guarantee you like when you

guarantee you like when you listen to your voice

listen to your voice

listen to your voice and that little voice in the

and that little voice in the

and that little voice in the back of your head and it takes

back of your head and it takes

back of your head and it takes you to a good place you'll be

you to a good place you'll be

you to a good place you'll be happy that you did and that will

happy that you did and that will

happy that you did and that will be it will make that that

be it will make that that

be it will make that that ability to listen to yourself to

ability to listen to yourself to

ability to listen to yourself to listen to yourself

listen to yourself

listen to yourself much stronger so you can

much stronger so you can

much stronger so you can actually have better you know

actually have better you know

actually have better you know make better make better choices

make better make better choices

make better make better choices about life without having to

about life without having to

about life without having to have like all kinds of

have like all kinds of

have like all kinds of information because honestly

information because honestly

information because honestly they're just many times where it

they're just many times where it

they're just many times where it doesn't matter even if you have

doesn't matter even if you have

doesn't matter even if you have lots of information you make a

lots of information you make a

lots of information you make a choice and then it ends up not

choice and then it ends up not

choice and then it ends up not working out very well for you

working out very well for you

working out very well for you so I've noticed kind of in my

so I've noticed kind of in my

so I've noticed kind of in my own life when i try to think too

own life when i try to think too

own life when i try to think too much about something I end up

much about something I end up

much about something I end up making a bad decision about

making a bad decision about

making a bad decision about something but if I just kind of

something but if I just kind of

something but if I just kind of relax and listen and feel which

relax and listen and feel which

relax and listen and feel which is the better choice

is the better choice

is the better choice I tend to make the right choice

I tend to make the right choice

I tend to make the right choice anyway this is related to this

anyway this is related to this

anyway this is related to this and I just wanted to tell a

and I just wanted to tell a

and I just wanted to tell a story about a kind of like I

story about a kind of like I

story about a kind of like I guess just to give a tale for

guess just to give a tale for

guess just to give a tale for you to make sure that whatever

you to make sure that whatever

you to make sure that whatever the choices you're making in

the choices you're making in

the choices you're making in your life are you doing the

your life are you doing the

your life are you doing the things that you should be doing

things that you should be doing

things that you should be doing or that you say you'd like to be

or that you say you'd like to be

or that you say you'd like to be doing that kind of thing

doing that kind of thing

doing that kind of thing so this was back maybe i don't

so this was back maybe i don't

so this was back maybe i don't know like 10 years ago

know like 10 years ago

know like 10 years ago yeah I guess well maybe a little

yeah I guess well maybe a little

yeah I guess well maybe a little bit little bit maybe eight years

bit little bit maybe eight years

bit little bit maybe eight years ago 10 years ago something like

ago 10 years ago something like

ago 10 years ago something like that and i was learning about

that and i was learning about

that and i was learning about like real estate and other

like real estate and other

like real estate and other things and I was telling people

things and I was telling people

things and I was telling people yeah I want to like get into

yeah I want to like get into

yeah I want to like get into real estate i really like to

real estate i really like to

real estate i really like to like learn more about that I

like learn more about that I

like learn more about that I didn't want to become like a

didn't want to become like a

didn't want to become like a like a realtor something like

like a realtor something like

like a realtor something like that i wanted to buy properties

that i wanted to buy properties

that i wanted to buy properties because I thought it would be

because I thought it would be

because I thought it would be fun to like fix them up and you

fun to like fix them up and you

fun to like fix them up and you know it's something physical i

know it's something physical i

know it's something physical i can i can build and maybe do

can i can build and maybe do

can i can build and maybe do something interesting with it

something interesting with it

something interesting with it and then rent them or sell them

and then rent them or sell them

and then rent them or sell them or something like that so I

or something like that so I

or something like that so I talked about it in like but when

talked about it in like but when

talked about it in like but when i was in situations like I i

i was in situations like I i

i was in situations like I i lived in seattle for a while for

lived in seattle for a while for

lived in seattle for a while for a couple of years actually

a couple of years actually

a couple of years actually worked as a I was a manager at a

worked as a I was a manager at a

worked as a I was a manager at a hotel for a while I worked at a

hotel for a while I worked at a

hotel for a while I worked at a sushi restaurant - but now it's

sushi restaurant - but now it's

sushi restaurant - but now it's kind of beside the point

kind of beside the point

kind of beside the point for this lesson but anyway so i

for this lesson but anyway so i

for this lesson but anyway so i was living in seattle and when I

was living in seattle and when I

was living in seattle and when I was talking to like kind of

was talking to like kind of

was talking to like kind of looking to tour is talking to

looking to tour is talking to

looking to tour is talking to different apartment managers

different apartment managers

different apartment managers about a place I could live

about a place I could live

about a place I could live it didn't really occur to meet

it didn't really occur to meet

it didn't really occur to meet it like okay I'm going to like

it like okay I'm going to like

it like okay I'm going to like maybe become a manager of a

maybe become a manager of a

maybe become a manager of a particular apartment something

particular apartment something

particular apartment something like that

like that

like that I just didn't think about that

I just didn't think about that

I just didn't think about that so even though i was in the back

so even though i was in the back

so even though i was in the back of my mind thinking about real

of my mind thinking about real

of my mind thinking about real estate like the situation was in

estate like the situation was in

estate like the situation was in front of me but I like didn't

front of me but I like didn't

front of me but I like didn't see it and so when I went in one

see it and so when I went in one

see it and so when I went in one of the people that was

of the people that was

of the people that was interviewing me just to become

interviewing me just to become

interviewing me just to become like a regular renter I was just

like a regular renter I was just

like a regular renter I was just looking for an apartment i

looking for an apartment i

looking for an apartment i wasn't looking for a job but he

wasn't looking for a job but he

wasn't looking for a job but he was saying oh like why don't you

was saying oh like why don't you

was saying oh like why don't you become like the manager of this

become like the manager of this

become like the manager of this place i don't know he just

place i don't know he just

place i don't know he just wanted me to become the manager

wanted me to become the manager

wanted me to become the manager and so said okay fine whatever

and so said okay fine whatever

and so said okay fine whatever so I was doing like kind of some

so I was doing like kind of some

so I was doing like kind of some cleaning and a little bit like

cleaning and a little bit like

cleaning and a little bit like managing stuff but not a big

managing stuff but not a big

managing stuff but not a big deal in the apartment thing and

deal in the apartment thing and

deal in the apartment thing and another friend because i worked

another friend because i worked

another friend because i worked on a fishing boat in Alaska for

on a fishing boat in Alaska for

on a fishing boat in Alaska for a little while like a little bit

a little while like a little bit

a little while like a little bit before i went to Seattle

before i went to Seattle

before i went to Seattle so I lived in Alaska for a while

so I lived in Alaska for a while

so I lived in Alaska for a while and came back to Japan for a

and came back to Japan for a

and came back to Japan for a little bit and then when i was

little bit and then when i was

little bit and then when i was living in seattle again I would

living in seattle again I would

living in seattle again I would I was also doing the I like the

I was also doing the I like the

I was also doing the I like the the guy that was the brother of

the guy that was the brother of

the guy that was the brother of the guy whose boat i was living

the guy whose boat i was living

the guy whose boat i was living on in

on in

on in in Alaska he lived in around

in Alaska he lived in around

in Alaska he lived in around seattle and so he was kind of

seattle and so he was kind of

seattle and so he was kind of doing real estate stuff and so

doing real estate stuff and so

doing real estate stuff and so it was really funny that like

it was really funny that like

it was really funny that like while i was on the boat in

while i was on the boat in

while i was on the boat in Alaska so I was out there for

Alaska so I was out there for

Alaska so I was out there for about

about

about I guess three months in a little

I guess three months in a little

I guess three months in a little bit this is in the summer i

bit this is in the summer i

bit this is in the summer i think what I don't know however

think what I don't know however

think what I don't know however many years ago it was but before

many years ago it was but before

many years ago it was but before I went out to seattle and so I

I went out to seattle and so I

I went out to seattle and so I was reading books on the boat

was reading books on the boat

was reading books on the boat about you know real estate

about you know real estate

about you know real estate whatever i'm kind of like

whatever i'm kind of like

whatever i'm kind of like drawing that to me so I had no

drawing that to me so I had no

drawing that to me so I had no idea that the captain of the

idea that the captain of the

idea that the captain of the ship his brother was into real

ship his brother was into real

ship his brother was into real estate that kind of thing

estate that kind of thing

estate that kind of thing and so when I was thinking about

and so when I was thinking about

and so when I was thinking about it like when I actually got to

it like when I actually got to

it like when I actually got to seattle and then I was able to

seattle and then I was able to

seattle and then I was able to connect with him I kind of like

connect with him I kind of like

connect with him I kind of like just the captain was like I mean

just the captain was like I mean

just the captain was like I mean he liked me and he was like oh

he liked me and he was like oh

he liked me and he was like oh why don't you connect with my

why don't you connect with my

why don't you connect with my brother and you can talk about

brother and you can talk about

brother and you can talk about real estate and like learn a

real estate and like learn a

real estate and like learn a little bit from him in like I

little bit from him in like I

little bit from him in like I kind of did but I didn't really

kind of did but I didn't really

kind of did but I didn't really like it was it was weird it's

like it was it was weird it's

like it was it was weird it's like I had been learning about

like I had been learning about

like I had been learning about and kind of like looking for

and kind of like looking for

and kind of like looking for that opportunity but like I

that opportunity but like I

that opportunity but like I didn't do anything with that

didn't do anything with that

didn't do anything with that opportunity and it's one of

opportunity and it's one of

opportunity and it's one of those things that I don't regret

those things that I don't regret

those things that I don't regret now I mean I can go back and

now I mean I can go back and

now I mean I can go back and learn about real estate at any

learn about real estate at any

learn about real estate at any time but like the thing that I

time but like the thing that I

time but like the thing that I kind of missed the chance on was

kind of missed the chance on was

kind of missed the chance on was listening to like the voice that

listening to like the voice that

listening to like the voice that was like hey like Drew like wake

was like hey like Drew like wake

was like hey like Drew like wake up like there's an opportunity

up like there's an opportunity

up like there's an opportunity around you right now we're like

around you right now we're like

around you right now we're like you have been learning about

you have been learning about

you have been learning about this and now you're being like

this and now you're being like

this and now you're being like you're like connected with like

you're like connected with like

you're like connected with like the owner of this building as an

the owner of this building as an

the owner of this building as an apartment manager and if you

apartment manager and if you

apartment manager and if you would just ask him for like

would just ask him for like

would just ask him for like advice or learning how to do

advice or learning how to do

advice or learning how to do that he would probably teach you

that he would probably teach you

that he would probably teach you and this other guy who's like

and this other guy who's like

and this other guy who's like able to teach about real estate

able to teach about real estate

able to teach about real estate or whatever like I'm sure he

or whatever like I'm sure he

or whatever like I'm sure he would be able to teach you a lot

would be able to teach you a lot

would be able to teach you a lot too but I didn't notice it

too but I didn't notice it

too but I didn't notice it it was really weird and i didn't

it was really weird and i didn't

it was really weird and i didn't i didn't realize it until after

i didn't realize it until after

i didn't realize it until after I left Seattle and I think the

I left Seattle and I think the

I left Seattle and I think the reason was probably because I

reason was probably because I

reason was probably because I was more interested in coming

was more interested in coming

was more interested in coming back to Japan and doing the

back to Japan and doing the

back to Japan and doing the things that I do out here then

things that I do out here then

things that I do out here then staying in America so even

staying in America so even

staying in America so even though like I still think about

though like I still think about

though like I still think about real estate and it's a lot of

real estate and it's a lot of

real estate and it's a lot of fun to think about you know

fun to think about you know

fun to think about you know going back into that and

going back into that and

going back into that and learning more about that when I

learning more about that when I

learning more about that when I returned home at some point in

returned home at some point in

returned home at some point in the future

the future

the future I guess I just wasn't really

I guess I just wasn't really

I guess I just wasn't really thinking about it at the time

thinking about it at the time

thinking about it at the time so what I'm kind of getting at

so what I'm kind of getting at

so what I'm kind of getting at here is kind of a long story but

here is kind of a long story but

here is kind of a long story but what I'd like you to do is think

what I'd like you to do is think

what I'd like you to do is think about is there a situation in

about is there a situation in

about is there a situation in your life now where it could be

your life now where it could be

your life now where it could be something that's like really

something that's like really

something that's like really valuable or something that maybe

valuable or something that maybe

valuable or something that maybe its leading you in a particular

its leading you in a particular

its leading you in a particular direction even something that

direction even something that

direction even something that you really want but it's like

you really want but it's like

you really want but it's like you don't notice it and maybe

you don't notice it and maybe

you don't notice it and maybe you could comment down below if

you could comment down below if

you could comment down below if you've had a similar experience

you've had a similar experience

you've had a similar experience even if it's not current in your

even if it's not current in your

even if it's not current in your life

life

life but something where like all of

but something where like all of

but something where like all of these things were kind of

these things were kind of

these things were kind of pushing you in a direction that

pushing you in a direction that

pushing you in a direction that was like a positive direction

was like a positive direction

was like a positive direction for you but you you just like

for you but you you just like

for you but you you just like didn't take it for some reason

didn't take it for some reason

didn't take it for some reason and so I thought about that a

and so I thought about that a

and so I thought about that a lot after i left Seattle and it

lot after i left Seattle and it

lot after i left Seattle and it was like wow like i was in this

was like wow like i was in this

was like wow like i was in this situation where I had kind of

situation where I had kind of

situation where I had kind of learned about these things and i

learned about these things and i

learned about these things and i was able to find people that

was able to find people that

was able to find people that could kind of teach me about

could kind of teach me about

could kind of teach me about that but I didn't take advantage

that but I didn't take advantage

that but I didn't take advantage of the situation I would like

of the situation I would like

of the situation I would like just actually didn't notice it

just actually didn't notice it

just actually didn't notice it for some weird reason for any

for some weird reason for any

for some weird reason for any maybe it's not even such a weird

maybe it's not even such a weird

maybe it's not even such a weird reason again I kinda wanted to

reason again I kinda wanted to

reason again I kinda wanted to leave the country and I wasn't

leave the country and I wasn't

leave the country and I wasn't really thinking about staying in

really thinking about staying in

really thinking about staying in America anyway at that point but

America anyway at that point but

America anyway at that point but just the fact that like all

just the fact that like all

just the fact that like all those things came together

those things came together

those things came together because i was just like i think

because i was just like i think

because i was just like i think i've talked about this earlier

i've talked about this earlier

i've talked about this earlier in this series when I talk about

in this series when I talk about

in this series when I talk about the rules of fluency and how

the rules of fluency and how

the rules of fluency and how you're really focused on

you're really focused on

you're really focused on something even if you don't know

something even if you don't know

something even if you don't know exactly how you will do it and

exactly how you will do it and

exactly how you will do it and you keep pushing towards that

you keep pushing towards that

you keep pushing towards that thing that's what's going to

thing that's what's going to

thing that's what's going to bring you success the people

bring you success the people

bring you success the people that weight and they try to

that weight and they try to

that weight and they try to think about it and make sure to

think about it and make sure to

think about it and make sure to make sure that like they have

make sure that like they have

make sure that like they have every angle or every maybe way

every angle or every maybe way

every angle or every maybe way that something could go positive

that something could go positive

that something could go positive or could go negative something

or could go negative something

or could go negative something like that they try to think

like that they try to think

like that they try to think about all those things and then

about all those things and then

about all those things and then they end up doing nothing

they end up doing nothing

they end up doing nothing so that's why most of the time i

so that's why most of the time i

so that's why most of the time i will continue to move and even

will continue to move and even

will continue to move and even if i don't know exactly how I'm

if i don't know exactly how I'm

if i don't know exactly how I'm going to do something or what's

going to do something or what's

going to do something or what's exactly the best way to do it

exactly the best way to do it

exactly the best way to do it I would just kind of keep moving

I would just kind of keep moving

I would just kind of keep moving and keep pushing towards that

and keep pushing towards that

and keep pushing towards that thing and eventually I ended up

thing and eventually I ended up

thing and eventually I ended up making it but on this occasion

making it but on this occasion

making it but on this occasion and i'm sure it's happened to me

and i'm sure it's happened to me

and i'm sure it's happened to me at other times in my life but

at other times in my life but

at other times in my life but when that happens to you like

when that happens to you like

when that happens to you like make the choice to kind of open

make the choice to kind of open

make the choice to kind of open your eyes and see like what what

your eyes and see like what what

your eyes and see like what what are the forces in my life right

are the forces in my life right

are the forces in my life right now pushing me to do whatever

now pushing me to do whatever

now pushing me to do whatever those happen to be and it could

those happen to be and it could

those happen to be and it could be something positive hopefully

be something positive hopefully

be something positive hopefully it's not anything negative but

it's not anything negative but

it's not anything negative but presumably it's something you

presumably it's something you

presumably it's something you want and either you don't do it

want and either you don't do it

want and either you don't do it because I guess you don't think

because I guess you don't think

because I guess you don't think about it like he didn't notice

about it like he didn't notice

about it like he didn't notice it just like I didn't notice it

it just like I didn't notice it

it just like I didn't notice it or you're scared about that

or you're scared about that

or you're scared about that thing

thing

thing it's ok to be scared about

it's ok to be scared about

it's ok to be scared about something it's okay to say like

something it's okay to say like

something it's okay to say like well and like like I really want

well and like like I really want

well and like like I really want to go to America and my friend

to go to America and my friend

to go to America and my friend is saying hey come to America he

is saying hey come to America he

is saying hey come to America he has like a place for me to stay

has like a place for me to stay

has like a place for me to stay in like I could get a job there

in like I could get a job there

in like I could get a job there and these other things but i'm a

and these other things but i'm a

and these other things but i'm a little bit nervous so like you

little bit nervous so like you

little bit nervous so like you have the opportunity but either

have the opportunity but either

have the opportunity but either you don't notice it or you do

you don't notice it or you do

you don't notice it or you do notice it and you're just like

notice it and you're just like

notice it and you're just like you something is stopping you

you something is stopping you

you something is stopping you from

from

from from taking that chance and

from taking that chance and

from taking that chance and that's the point where we come

that's the point where we come

that's the point where we come back to like listening to that

back to like listening to that

back to like listening to that voice inside you wherever that

voice inside you wherever that

voice inside you wherever that is in your head or your ear your

is in your head or your ear your

is in your head or your ear your shoulder or whatever it happens

shoulder or whatever it happens

shoulder or whatever it happens to be so when you think about

to be so when you think about

to be so when you think about that

that

that don't make the mistake I did and

don't make the mistake I did and

don't make the mistake I did and I'm happy like I kind of did the

I'm happy like I kind of did the

I'm happy like I kind of did the thing that I did I was and i'm

thing that I did I was and i'm

thing that I did I was and i'm sure would have been fine

sure would have been fine

sure would have been fine weather i'm learning about real

weather i'm learning about real

weather i'm learning about real estate for a little bit or I was

estate for a little bit or I was

estate for a little bit or I was doing like working at a sushi

doing like working at a sushi

doing like working at a sushi place or whatever it doesn't

place or whatever it doesn't

place or whatever it doesn't really matter but the point is

really matter but the point is

really matter but the point is like my life was kind of pushing

like my life was kind of pushing

like my life was kind of pushing me in that way and i wanted to

me in that way and i wanted to

me in that way and i wanted to go that way but I didn't and I'd

go that way but I didn't and I'd

go that way but I didn't and I'd like you to think about if

like you to think about if

like you to think about if there's anything in your life

there's anything in your life

there's anything in your life right now maybe not that you're

right now maybe not that you're

right now maybe not that you're unhappy with it but that maybe

unhappy with it but that maybe

unhappy with it but that maybe is not like happening as well as

is not like happening as well as

is not like happening as well as you'd like it to be because

you'd like it to be because

you'd like it to be because you're kind of holding yourself

you're kind of holding yourself

you're kind of holding yourself back either because you don't

back either because you don't

back either because you don't know or because you're kind of

know or because you're kind of

know or because you're kind of nervous about that thing

nervous about that thing

nervous about that thing so think about the things that

so think about the things that

so think about the things that you really want to do whatever

you really want to do whatever

you really want to do whatever that happens to be and you can

that happens to be and you can

that happens to be and you can also think about is it like

also think about is it like

also think about is it like feeling good for you to do that

feeling good for you to do that

feeling good for you to do that thing like when you think about

thing like when you think about

thing like when you think about yes like should I have another

yes like should I have another

yes like should I have another baby or should i should i leave

baby or should i should i leave

baby or should i should i leave her like should I go to a

her like should I go to a

her like should I go to a different country to do

different country to do

different country to do something should i make some

something should i make some

something should i make some major decision like that just

major decision like that just

major decision like that just relax and and just feel again

relax and and just feel again

relax and and just feel again like flipping a coin like I

like flipping a coin like I

like flipping a coin like I talked about in the previous

talked about in the previous

talked about in the previous lesson in this series where

lesson in this series where

lesson in this series where you're flipping a coin to decide

you're flipping a coin to decide

you're flipping a coin to decide like how do you feel right in

like how do you feel right in

like how do you feel right in that moment where you flip the

that moment where you flip the

that moment where you flip the coin you see if it's heads or

coin you see if it's heads or

coin you see if it's heads or tails and maybe you like think

tails and maybe you like think

tails and maybe you like think like oh no like I didn't really

like oh no like I didn't really

like oh no like I didn't really want that one so you choose to

want that one so you choose to

want that one so you choose to do the other thing instead but

do the other thing instead but

do the other thing instead but try to listen to the actual

try to listen to the actual

try to listen to the actual feeling that you get not like

feeling that you get not like

feeling that you get not like what your head is telling you

what your head is telling you

what your head is telling you and if you can train yourself to

and if you can train yourself to

and if you can train yourself to do this more

do this more

do this more it's going to help you make

it's going to help you make

it's going to help you make better decisions but it will

better decisions but it will

better decisions but it will also tell you

also tell you

also tell you kind of like if you're

kind of like if you're

kind of like if you're bullshitting or not now I want

bullshitting or not now I want

bullshitting or not now I want to be bullshitting about

to be bullshitting about

to be bullshitting about something just means like are

something just means like are

something just means like are you like saying you want to do

you like saying you want to do

you like saying you want to do something but not actually

something but not actually

something but not actually talking about it like i tell

talking about it like i tell

talking about it like i tell people hey I want to get fit and

people hey I want to get fit and

people hey I want to get fit and like work out or whatever but I

like work out or whatever but I

like work out or whatever but I never do so I'm just

never do so I'm just

never do so I'm just bullshitting about that

bullshitting about that

bullshitting about that so I say hey I want to learn

so I say hey I want to learn

so I say hey I want to learn about real estate but when

about real estate but when

about real estate but when opportunities come to me like I

opportunities come to me like I

opportunities come to me like I don't take them and I think in

don't take them and I think in

don't take them and I think in my case like for that specific

my case like for that specific

my case like for that specific example I just like really

example I just like really

example I just like really didn't want to be in seattle at

didn't want to be in seattle at

didn't want to be in seattle at that point anyway so I think

that point anyway so I think

that point anyway so I think maybe I'm ok but it was just a

maybe I'm ok but it was just a

maybe I'm ok but it was just a very clear example that I

very clear example that I

very clear example that I learned from

learned from

learned from and I hope you can learn from it

and I hope you can learn from it

and I hope you can learn from it as well where if you're

as well where if you're

as well where if you're listening to that voice in the

listening to that voice in the

listening to that voice in the back of your head it can teach

back of your head it can teach

back of your head it can teach you to do things our show you to

you to do things our show you to

you to do things our show you to do things in a way that even if

do things in a way that even if

do things in a way that even if you're uncomfortable or scared

you're uncomfortable or scared

you're uncomfortable or scared listen to that voice like your

listen to that voice like your

listen to that voice like your body is not going to tell you

body is not going to tell you

body is not going to tell you anything or tell you to do

anything or tell you to do

anything or tell you to do something that would be bad for

something that would be bad for

something that would be bad for you think about it like that

you think about it like that

you think about it like that so your body would not be like

so your body would not be like

so your body would not be like well yeah did go to America

well yeah did go to America

well yeah did go to America because you're gonna die out

because you're gonna die out

because you're gonna die out there or whatever like your body

there or whatever like your body

there or whatever like your body knows already like if it's a

knows already like if it's a

knows already like if it's a good thing like yeah that's a

good thing like yeah that's a

good thing like yeah that's a good decision now we gotta we

good decision now we gotta we

good decision now we gotta we gotta like make him make drew

gotta like make him make drew

gotta like make him make drew like actually do that thing

like actually do that thing

like actually do that thing anyway - some more food for

anyway - some more food for

anyway - some more food for thought

thought

thought something to think about some

something to think about some

something to think about some food for thought instead of food

food for thought instead of food

food for thought instead of food for your stomach but I will

for your stomach but I will

for your stomach but I will leave it with with this for now

leave it with with this for now

leave it with with this for now hopefully just giving you again

hopefully just giving you again

hopefully just giving you again something to think about

something to think about

something to think about but i do hope you've enjoyed

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